To The Only Child About To Move Into Their Dorm

To The Only Child About To Move Into Their Dorm

This is going to take some getting used to.

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Either one of two things are about to happen; you'll get along with your freshman year roommate or you won't. For me, my freshman year roommate and I didn't speak and I learned how to live with that. Everything that's about to happen is going to be a major adjustment.

Going from living at home with just you and your parents to living in a dorm filled with 500 students and a roommate is a big change. If you're like me, going from a quiet house in a suburban area to a loud dorm building is a weird thing. It definitely took me about a month or so to get used to sleeping to the sounds of loud music, a snoring roommate, or someone waking you up at all hours of the night. But the key is, I did end up getting used to living with other people.

It isn't going to be the easiest adjustment, especially if you've never really spent a lot of time away from home. But, you'll learn how to live with people that you probably never imagined yourself living with. If you have a similar situation to mine, you may not like your roommate or even speak to her for that matter.

I learned so much from the experience of living with someone that I truly did not get along with, such as the fact that I'm able to stand my ground. I realized after a while that my room is my space and if I wanted to be in there then that was my decision. After I realized that, I think things started to get a lot easier for me.

You're going to want to make your side of the room feel as much home-like as possible, so if you're like me that'll mean a bunch of fuzzy pillows and blankets. Although you won't be spending all of your time in your dorm room, it's important that you do feel at home during the time that you are in there.

It's going to be strange falling asleep and waking up with someone else in your room every day. Listening to someone snore and toss and turn in bed isn't the most fun way to fall asleep, but you learn to get used to it. Whether it's using more blankets or pillows, listening to music, or just trying to imagine yourself on a beach somewhere, you'll figure out what works for you. Hearing someone else's alarm in the morning isn't the best way to wake up, but you eventually get used to learning how to sleep through it or just go back to sleep.

It isn't all bad, going off to college to live in a 19x10 dorm with a total stranger is quite the experience. Whether it starts out as good or bad, it'll be what you make it. It's up to you to make the most of it and branch out to new opportunities. College is a series of new opportunities and you need to wake up every day deciding to do your best.

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22 New Things That I Want To Try Now That I'm 22

A bucket list for my 22nd year.

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"I don't know about you but I'm feelin' 22," I have waited 6 long years to sing that and actually be 22! Now 22 doesn't seem like a big deal to people because you can't do anything that you couldn't do before and you're still super young. But I'm determined to make my 22nd year a year filled with new adventures and new experiences. So here's to 22.

1. Go sky diving.

What's crazier than jumping out of a plane? (Although I'll probably try indoor skydiving first.)

2. Go cliff jumping/diving.

I must be the only Rhode Islander who hasn't gone to Jamestown and jumped off a cliff.

3. Ride in a hor air balloon.

Up, up and away.

4. Try out skiing.

Cash me in the next Olympics, how bout dat.

5. Try out snow boarding.

Shawn White, I'm coming for you.

6. Go bungee jumping.

Because at least this time I'll be attached to something.

7. Go to Portugal.

I mean I'm Portuguese so I have to go at some point, right?

8. Go to Cape Verde.

Once again, I'm Cape Verdean so I have to go.

9. Vist one of the seven wonders of the world.

I mean hey, Egypt's on, my bucket list.

10. Try out surfing.

It's only natural that somebody from the Ocean State knows how to surf.

11. Learn a new langauge.

Because my little bit of Portuguese, Spanish and Latin isn't cutting it anymore.

12. Travel to a state that I've never been to before.

Fun fact: I've only been to 17 of the 50 states.

13. Go paddle boarding.

Pretty boring but I've never done it.

14. Go scuba diving.

I'm from the Ocean State so I guess I should see the ocean up close and personal.

15. Learn how to line dance.

There's actually a barn in my state that does line dancing, so this one will definitely get crossed off.

16. Go kayaking.

All this water around me and I haven't done a lot of the water activites.

17. Stay the night in a haunted hotel room.

I bet if I got my friends to come with me, it would be like the Suite Life of Zach and Cody episode, minus the ghost coming out of the wall but you never know.

18. Get my palms read.

Because who doesn't want to know their future.

19. Go to a medium.

Like a medium that can communicate with people that have died.

20. Take a helicopter ride.

Air plane: check Helicopter:....

21. Sleep under the stars.

Because sleeping in a tent is more like glamping than camping

22. Just to try new things in my everyday life.

Whether it's trying a new restaurant, getting something different at my usual restaurants, changing my usual style, going on the scary rides at amusement parks, and bringing things I used to do back into my life now.

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We Can't Plan Our Lives And That Doesn't have To Be A Bad Thing

It puts into perspective how very little control we have on this planet.

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Life will wreck your plans, every time, and I'm not really sure that's a bad thing. I think it just puts into perspective how very little control we have on this planet, and that's humbling.

I'm learning a lot right now about letting go. Having little idea of what I'm going to do after college or down the road can feel really daunting at times, but it's also forcing me to hold my heart in the peace of certain truths I know.

Truth #1: Nothing you ever do, or don't do, can affect your value. I believe in God, and His promises and the rooting I've found in Him destroy all other theories of my worth. You might not believe that. Regardless, I hope you know you're priceless. If we claim to care for humanity, I believe we have to also acknowledge that nobody could possibly have any more value than anyone else. Let's not commodify ourselves. There is freedom in rejecting the notion that you have to be a certain person to be valuable.

Truth #2: There is beauty in faithfully walking into the unknown.

Truth #3: Life is scary, but we've made it through a lot of scary stuff so far, and we can do it again.

Truth #4: The world is a very broken place, and the longer I sit in inaction, the more I know we have to do something.

Truth #5: Boundaries are important. Although I am put on this earth to create further goodness and spread further light, I can't do it all. I have to learn to live within the tension of being human and being created to give of myself to the world. Sitting in the now with uncertainty of the future allows me time to consider the kind of boundaries I want to retain in order to protect my heart from the trying times that are sure to continue coming.

Truth #6: Although sometimes I feel like I'm stuck because I can't plan the future, I'm learning. Every single day. I'm constantly being grown, challenged, and opened. The idea that we can be "stuck"... is kind of a lie. Every moment, every event, every experience is important. We just have to remain open to being changed.

Truth #7: The unexpected does not have to be negative. Surprises, and even obstacles, do not have to be received with stress or anxiety. We never know what is coming— if we approach and receive the things that happen to us unexpectedly with hope and positivity, stress and anxiety have a much weaker grip. Grief is necessary, and disappointment is human; mental battles are not easily fought. But we can fight. And we can hope. And we can be positive even through immense amounts of pain.

Truth #8: Sometimes the days with no plan are the very best.

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