A Open Letter To The Person Who Isn't My Person Anymore
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A Open Letter To The Person Who Isn't My Person Anymore

I'm sorry it wasn't what we wanted.

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A Open Letter To The Person Who Isn't My Person Anymore
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I spent the whole day thinking about us and what our new label has become.

This morning I woke up and to my surprise, my daydreaming didn't change the past. A day like any other that changed our feelings forever. I thought we could be a great team but sometimes people don't wholeheartedly connect.

What is a good thing?

Is a good thing the one thing that makes your life better or what is best for you at that certain time although you may not understand?

Maybe we will never know if we were good for each other or the mere thought of us together was just fun and exciting to see what adventure came next and that's okay. It has to be okay.

Hearts aren't meant to be broken but I hope that with time to mend what broke us will, in turn, make us stronger.

Acceptance is the one feeling most of us lack when a relationship takes a turn for the worst. The feelings of sadness, confusion, and a sense of being overwhelmed by our feelings can cloud our judgment. These things can make us lash out or redirect our feelings into uncharted territories and makes it hard to accept the things we cannot change. Maybe closing the door on things for good can leave more room for the people we are meant to be surrounded by. For now, I think it's best for every party involved.

I do accept you for who you are and who we could not be. I look forward to noticing your lifelong changes and silently root for you when you reach your goals. You will flourish into the person you want to be, I just know it. You were made for great things, like us all but I don't believe we were made for great things together. In time I believe I will come to accept my decisions as I do yours. I want you to know I am thankful for the time we had, the memories we created and I'm sorry for any hurt I created for you. You will impact the world, and I hope you're ready for the future ahead.

I hope you can accept what we cannot change and have to strength to move forward from our hurt.

Sincerely,

An old friend


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