Why Wait For January 1st To Better Yourself?

Why Wait For January 1st To Better Yourself?

Because, let's be honest, you're not really going to fulfill that resolution.

It's officially 2018, and I bet you've already come up with a New Year's Resolution. You probably swore to yourself you're going to lose 15 pounds. Or maybe you vowed to spend less and save more. Let me guess, you're FINALLY going to get organized?

*Cue eye roll*

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with having hope. There's nothing wrong with setting goals for yourself. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with being ambitious. But why wait until January 1st every single year to make empty promises to yourselves only to postpone them for the next new year? Okay, I'm sure not everyone does this. But most people do. It's uncanny how many people start diets in the new year only to abandon them completely within a few weeks.

January 1st is just another day. You aren't going to magically gain the motivation you've been searching for because a giant ball in Times Square drops. That motivation has to come from within, not from the clock striking 12. It's amazing how many believe New Year's Day is anything but a Monday morning.

I know what you're thinking: "But it's about what it REPRESENTS". Yeah, yeah, I get it. New year, new beginnings, fresh starts, etc.

And that's, theoretically, real cute.

But it's not realistic.

And it's not healthy to fill your head with lies about what you plan to alter about your life when you know it won't hold up.

Maybe there's power in owning that we are who we are and we can't quite become someone else because it's a new year. We can only work to improve and enhance ourselves over time and at our own pace.

The problem with annual resolutions is that they construct the illusion that if you fail, you simply push it back to the next year's resolution. And then it's an endless cycle, and you never get around to completing the objective.

I'm not saying don't have a resolution. I'm saying stop relying on the new year to create and execute them. Start bettering yourself on May 3rd, on September 16th, on November 25th. Start on a random Tuesday night. Start during a rainy Summer day. Start whenever you feel compelled to. Start when you are entirely ready and prepared. But know drastic change does not happen overnight. Not even on the night of December 31st. Even though it's a new year, it's the same you.

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52 Instagram Captions Perfect For Your Next Beach Vacation

Perfect for those beach daze.

Summer is officially in full swing. We are all looking forward to the adventures that await us. A lot of us have been dreaming about the day when we finally get to kick our feet up and relax by the ocean. If you find yourself getting ready for a trip to the beach then read these quotes to help get your in the mood for your vacation. Whether you are looking for an Instagram caption or are just trying to settle a bad case of wanderlust, here are 52 quotes on summer:

1. "Hello summer."

2. "I'm happiest when I'm floating in the ocean."

3. "May you always have a shell in your pocket, and sand in your toes."

4. "Life is better with palm trees."

5. "Sandy toes. Sun-kissed nose."

6. "Balmy nights, pink sunsets, and salty air."

7. "Talk to the sand."

8. "Live in the sunshine. Swim in the sea. Drink the wild air." -Emerson

9. "Everyone should believe in something. I believe I should go to the beach."

10. "Spontaneity is the best kind of adventure."

11. "The ocean is calling and I must go."

12. "Here comes the sun."

13. "If it requires a bikini, my answer is yes."

14. "I'm just a beachy kinda girl."

15. "As free as the ocean..."

16. "As endless as the ocean, as timeless as the tides..."

17. "Life's a beach. Enjoy the waves."

18. "A pineapple a day keeps the worries away."

19. "Let the currents guide your heart."

20. "Happiness comes in waves."

21. "Let's go somewhere where the stars kiss the ocean."

22. "My favorite color is sunset."

23. "I lost my heart to the sea."

24. "Sun, sand, and surf."

25. "Salt in the air. Sand in my hair."

26. "Smell the sea, and feel the sky. Let your soul and spirit fly." -Van Morrison

27. "High tides and good vibes."

28. "Mermaid kisses and starfish wishes."

29. "Stop and smell the ocean."

30. "I'm happy anywhere I can see the ocean."

31. "Tropical state of mind."

32. "Forever chasing the sun."

33. "Girls just wanna have sun."

34. "Some of the best memories are made in flip flops." -Kellie Elmore

35. "Good times and tan lines."

36. "Palm trees, ocean breeze, salty air, sun-kissed hair, endless summer, take me there."

37. "The ocean is calling."

38. "Love you to the beach and back."

39. "Paradise found."

40. "Seas the day."

41. "Live in the sunshine, swim in the sea, drink the wild air..." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

42. "Eat. Beach. Sleep. Repeat."

43. "I never met a sunset I didn't like."

44. "Beach daze always."

45. "Catch me by the sea."

46. "Only worry in the world is the tide gonna reach my chair." -Zac Brown Band

47. "Stay salty."

48. "Done adulating- let's be mermaids."

49. "Find me under the palm trees."

50. "Sea you soon."

51. "Hello sunshine."

52. "Don't mind me... I'm just chasing the sun."

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It's Still March But I'm Ready For Summer

Where are you summer?


I always get excited for fall and winter. And don't get me wrong, they are arguably the best seasons because they bring all the best things to us. Cute sweaters, adorable boots, and some snow are all things that make me extremely happy.

For about a month.

And after that month, I just get so tired of the cold weather and early nights. Let's be honest with ourselves: winter is exhausting.

It's March, it's still cold, and I'm completely ready for summer to be here already. Honestly, we can skip spring, because I am just in the mood for summertime.

Imagine it now: the sun doesn't set until 9 p.m., you can show off your cute new bathing suit, and you don't have to worry about wearing a coat every single time you go outside. Sound amazing, right?

Maybe I'm getting ahead of myself. After all, we still have quite a bit of time until summer is here. At least two more months of snow and freezing cold wind separate me from the end of school year and the bliss of summer.

But even though there's still a lot of time to go until the summer, I can't help but be excited already. I can't help but be thinking about cute outfits I can wear once it's warm outside and all the amazing experiences I'll be able to have over the summer that I never get to do when it's cold outside and I'm stuck on campus.

Anyone else craving summer now?

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