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Dear Future Friends

You don't know me yet but I'm just going to give you the run down so you are prepared.

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Dear Future Friends

Dear future friends.

You don't know me yet but I'm just going to give you the run down so you are prepared.

I hope you are as spontaneous as me. I love to go on adventures, the more random the better. I love to see new things and meet new people. Keep in mind, however, I also am fine with just having a girls night, eating pizza and ice cream, watching movies and talking. When I have a friend I want someone I can have fun with no matter how big or how small the pastime.

I am not hard to understand. I will always tell you how I feel whether it's when you are wrong, I am mad at you for something, or you are making choices I do not support. I will, however, support you with every dream you have, be a listener, advice giver, and shoulder to cry on.

I have mood swings. I may be the happiest person ever and talk nonstop, always ready to be on the move or I may want to keep to myself and not go out for a while. I probably won't talk to you every day. This doesn't mean we aren't friends anymore or I am mad at you, know I am always here for you if you need me. My phone is always on and you will know where to find me. I expect the same from you though. My mood swings involve me being ecstatic over what I did that day or if I'm upset because Dunkin Donuts didn't have anymore Blueberry donuts or I'm stressing over my next exam. I will vent and rant to you about anything! Trust me, I am an emotional rollercoaster but I make it a fun ride.

I am random, when I have random thoughts or ideas you will be the first person to know about them and you will be interested in hearing about them. If it is important to me it will be important to you.

You will become part of my family as I will yours. Family events will be attended and you will get along with my parents. If I do dinner with my parents, expect to be invited.

I am not a partier. Don't be surprised if you ask me to go out one weekend to a Frat party and I turn you down. That's just not my zone. I can have a good time but I'd rather it be with close friends at a small get together.

Respect my relationship. I have a boyfriend and he's not going anywhere. I will want nights and days with him. You have to share. I also need you to be able to get along with him. It makes everything easier. Be there when he and I have arguments no matter how dumb because they mean something to me and you're my go to. My boyfriend is also my best friend and that is okay, I am enough for you both.

Basically, this is similar to a relationship; best friends and boyfriends are alike in some ways. I will make and lose friends through life but I am in this for the long run.

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