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If You Have A Minute, Give Them A Minute

"We met a man and a follower of God." "A man of God."

If you live in a city, you have most likely seen or come in contact with a homeless person one time or another. Maybe you walked by without giving them any sort of time, or when they asked for some spare change you replied to them with, "I don't have any on me at the moment." On the contrary, maybe you are that person who took a minute to give them a few dollars or bought them a little something to eat.

I find this topic interesting mainly because their backgrounds vary all the time. For example, some are homeless veterans, some runaway teens, some just lost everything they have. I am a firm believer in making something of yourself in the sense that if you want to be something, go out and give it your all. But sometimes, people hit rock bottom and it may have just been an unexpected incidence that caused them to be out on the streets.

A little over a month ago I met this man in Columbus, GA. I wrote a Facebook post following the ten minutes my boyfriend and I talked to him. Here is the post:

"God works in mysterious ways. Following dinner, a man stopped Nik and I on the streets of Columbus. Little did we know he was a staff sergeant in the military, recently had a stroke and his fiancé left him after his accident and took his money. We met a man and a follower of God. A man of God.

He has gotten himself a job and is currently on the streets while he’s saving to get shelter. As a firm believer in having people cross paths for a reason, my place was to be there, to listen to his story, and to give him $20 which is all I had on me. But if it means he can a have a meal then that is okay.

Let this be a reminder to all that just because someone is having struggles in life, doesn’t mean you should ignore them. Listen to what they have to say, and go from there. I will be praying for that man because I can truly say he was a wonderful man."

I am often guilty of walking past people and not giving them the time of day to hear them out either because I don't have anything on me to help them or I am in a hurry to get somewhere. But what I learned from this event is that I need to stop and listen more and take a few minutes out of my day to go and buy someone some lunch. Not all, but some will be very grateful.

My challenge to you: take five minutes to listen to someone and hear their story and be a friend.

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12 Bible Verses For Faith In Hard Times

Remind yourself that God is always with you.

Lately, I have felt lost at what God wants for my life. Ever since I've come back to UWG everything has been horrible. It seems that I can't catch a break. I'm trying my best to focus on school, work, and extracurricular activities. But it's hard when I'm having issues with my apartment/roommates and knowing my family back home is struggling and needs many prayers. All, I keep thinking is maybe Carrollton isn't where I belong anymore. I've asked God if He can guide me in the right direction. Below, I have found Bible verses that have helped get me through these rough, past couple of weeks.

1. Isaiah 43:2

"When you go through deep waters, I will be with you."

2. Psalm 37:5

"Commit your way to the Lord. Trust in Him, and He will act."

3. Romans 8:18

"The pain that you've been feeling, can't compare to the joy that's coming."

4. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed in strength, and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future."

5. Joshua 1:9

"Be bold. Be brave. Be courageous."

6. Ecclesiastes 3:1

"There is a time for everything and a reason for every activity under the heavens."

7. Isaiah 41:10

"Don't be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand."

8. Isaiah 66:9

"I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born, says the Lord."

9. Psalm 91:4

"He will cover you with His feathers, and under His wings, you will find refuge; His faithfulness will be your shield and rampart."

10. Psalm 62:1-2

"My soul finds rest in God alone, my salvation comes from Him, He alone is my rock and my salvation."

11. Philippians 4:13

"I can do everything through Christ who gives me strength."

12. Jeremiah 29:11

"For I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

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The Struggle Of Maintaining A Strong Faith In College

I never thought I would struggle with having a strong faith, until college.


Growing up Catholic, my faith was the most important thing to me. I never thought it would be so difficult maintaining a strong faith in college. I was born into a huge Catholic family and growing up, I resented the idea of going to church and it was always a struggle for me.

My parents are both Catholic, as is the rest of my family, and it was the one thing I knew would never change in my life. I was baptized, received my first communion, and was confirmed. All three of these things are huge sacraments in the Catholic Church.

Typically, you are baptized into the Catholic Church as a baby and you receive your first communion around the age of 7 or 8. Your conformation is the most important day in your young, Catholic life. This is the sacrament where you become an adult in the churches eyes. This process is long and tedious. Although, often times it was a lot to do, it was an amazing period of growth in my faith for me and in the end was with it.

As a Freshman in high school, my parents left my faith up to me. They wanted it to become mine. With that opportunity, I ran. And started to have a very strong faith. I was very involved in my church doing mission work, bible studies, and even leading small groups. I was fully devoted to my faith pretty much all of high school and it was something that was so beautiful and I was so proud of. I didn't just go through the motions, I tried m hardest to live the life God designed for me while still bringing praise to his name.

Flash forward to my senior year of high school. The biggest, most unexpected thing happened in my life that acted as a wave in my calm sea of my faith.

On August 5th, 2016, I lost one of my very good friends. Logan's passing was so difficult for me and it made me start to question my faith.

How could God let this happen?

Why Logan?

Why now?

These were all things that constantly went through my mind. After that tragic experience, my faith was undoubtedly shaken. I lost touch with God during my senior year, which was something I never expected to happen.

I then moved into college with an already rocky faith, and in my head I thought I would move to Kentucky and my faith could instantly be fixed because I could move on from the past.

I was wrong.

In college, having a faith is difficult especially when a lot of your friends do not share the same religion as you. College is cool though because in church, when you look around at who is there, it is all college kids who want to be there. These kids no longer are being forced to go to church on Sunday with their parents. It's all their own effort.

With that being said, it's still not easy. One of the main issues I struggle with personally is scheduling. I'm always so busy with things like class and sorority that it has become difficult to attend church. Yes, I should do a better job of making my faith and attending church a priority, but y'all, life is busy. It's something to work on.

So how am I going to work on it? I plan to get more plugged into the church on campus and make it more of a priority in my life. I'm attending church more now that I am home again with my family. It has started to impact my life in a positive way. When I go back to college in the fall, I'm going to want to maintain this spiritual point in my life.

Faith is not perfect. It is ever-changing much like a roller coaster. You will have low and high points in your faith, but the important thing is that you accept that and still remember one thing. God loves you and wants a relationship with you.

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