I’m not searching for my other half because I am not a half.
“I need to find the person who completes me,” is a thought process that will deteriorate you. Live your life aggressively, and someday, the right person will fall into your life. You will be sure that he is the one because this will be a man who loves you.
A man who loves you will love someone else so much more. A man who loves you will prioritize God before you. He will pray to Him and thank Him for the good days with you and ask for guidance on the bad days. He will follow in God’s ways.
A man who loves you will trust you. It is as simple as that. He will know that you have good intentions and won’t doubt you when you say that you are loyal to him. This is not a statement that will need to be reiterated because he believes you.
A man who loves you will respect your family and friends. He will work hard to gain their approval. Once he has it, he will do everything in his power to keep it. He will show to them that he is good to you and will grow strong relationships with them not for your sake, but because these are the people that have shaped you.
A man who loves you will encourage you to pursue your dreams. He will encourage you to do the things you love and to do them often. He will support you even when your dreams do not align with his. A good man will not hold you back. He will push you to do more and be more.
A man who loves you will not leave when the going gets tough. He will not pick fights. He will work hard to make sure that the relationship is happy and healthy. When things get hard in your life, he will be there to listen and help you. He will not take out his bad days on you, instead, he will seek your comfort.
A man who loves you will make you a better person. He will be kind and generous to others. He will inspire you to do the same and to treat everyone with respect. He will prove to you that he has a good heart and one that inspires you to be the best version of yourself.
A man who loves you will prove to you every day that he does. By his actions and words, this will be not a question but rather a fact.
Never diminish your self-worth for someone who makes you feel like a half because you, my friend, are most definitely a whole.
