You are worth the effort.
You are loved.
Learning what it's like to be loved again is probably the hardest thing that anyone could ask of you. But all of the moments where you feel unwanted, broken, tattered and worn, they are all leading up to the day to where someone will look you in the eye, say the words "I do", and mean it with every ounce of their existence.Â
Many of us know the feeling too well. The feeling where you hold on to something that isn't there for so long that you forget what it feels like to love and to be loved. Don't give up hope. Every day that passes is a day that you can prove to yourself of just how strong you are. Don't lose faith.Â
After we get our heart broke, we convince ourselves that we aren't good enough for anyone so we, at some point or the other, give up. Don't lose faith in the fact that you are meant to be in this world and to be loved by someone. We more often than not, give all and receive little to the person who didn't deserve our love in the first place. But, if you want to learn to be loved again, you must allow yourself the respect to know who and what you deserve. Never settle for less.Â
To the girl who is learning what it's like to be loved again, just hold on. In order to be loved again, it'll take time. And no one ever said it was going to be easy. But i promise you that one day, you'll find someone who accepts the hardships and is willing to show your worth.Â
Until that day comes, hold on. Don't forget that it's okay to fall in love again.Â