Dozens of paper bags illuminate the night. "John." "Logan." "Friend." "Daddy." Each bag contains a softly glowing tealight, and a name lovingly written on its exterior. UNCG students, faculty, and volunteers stand en masse, holding brightly gleaming candles that illuminate the night. Hundreds of colorful pinwheels whirl in the background- 1,100 of them, to be exact, one for every college student lost each year to suicide.
UNCG's Candlelight Vigil earlier this month in honor of Suicide Prevention Month remembered both college students fallen victim to suicide in the community and across the country, and the late family, friends and loved ones of UNCG students. We mourned those who lost their battles to mental illness, and honored those who are still fighting.
The dozens of candles lit that night weren't just to look pretty. They represented the light of each lost loved one that still burns in our memories and the light that each one of us represents. Each one of us is a light burning brightly in the darkness, and we have to remember that. No matter how dark things may seem, there is always light somewhere, and when things get tough, we have to look for that light.
There is always hope. Even when it seems like all hope is gone, we have to remember that there is always a light at the tunnel. It will get better. And when it does, you'll be so glad that you kept fighting. You owe it to yourself. You're worth it. Whether you feel like it or not, you're a unique, amazing, special person who deserves to be in this world.
You don't have to suffer in silence. There are many people who you can go to for help. Go to the Counseling Center, talk to a close friend or family member, or call the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273 TALK (8255).
