"IDK" is not an acceptable answer anymore.

Why It's Important To Know What You Want

"Idk" isn't an acceptable answer.


It happens all the time.

Your family members, friends, teachers, co-workers, all pop the question. And no I'm not talking about "will you marry me?", I'm talking about, "So what do you want to do when you're done with school?". Your palms get a little sweaty, this is the question you've been rehearsing in your head for weeks now and you know what comes out? "Oh, I'm not sure." And on second thought, you don't actually know.


Whether it's finishing up high school or college, knowing what you want is a power move. Choosing the rest of your life at the age of 18 can be intimidating AF, but it's something you need to do.

The importance of knowing what you want in life shows that you are determined. It shows you are rock solid. You are ready to take on what's next, no matter what.

The importance of knowing what you want in life shows that you are sophisticated. It shows that you care about yourself, value your time, and want the best for YOU.

The importance of knowing what you want in life shows that you are on top of it. It shows that you are organized, ready to explore what's out there, and have a head on your shoulders that's headed in the right direction.

The importance of knowing what you want in life shows that you are excited. It shows that you are eager for what's to come and that it is a good thing to move forward.

When you answer the question with, "I don't know" or "we will see", it leaves a big question mark on who you are, what you want, and what's important to you. Sometimes you just honestly don't know. You can take this as a challenge to dig deep and figure your ISH out!

So next time someone asks you the almighty dreaded question, think about how your answer reflects who you are, what your goals are, and who you want to be.

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The Month Of April For A College Student As Told By Chandler Bing

Could you BE anymore stressed?

April. It's the time of the school year where every college student is hanging by a thread.

The weather is warm, the classrooms are warmer. Partying is an option at any given moment, but unfortunately, all of those exams, group projects and looming finals do not give af. This dynamic creates a certain type of pain only those living through it can manage to explain.

That is, of course, in addition to Chandler Bing (some of you may know him as Chanandler Bong), who can always help us empathize during times like these.

1. When your professor assigns that last reading assignment

2. When people keep telling you they're done with their finals

3. When all of the work gets to you and you have your fifth mental breakdown this week.

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4. After every single day in the month of April

5. Once the hopeless procrastinating turns into yet another mental breakdown

6. That feeling when you're studying for a cumulative final

7. After hours of studying, your mind begins to wander

8. When you're home for Easter and your family asks, "how are your grades?"

9. When you decide to try to test our your skills in areas besides what you're studying for

How about marketing? ..no... definitely not that one.

10. When you know you're going to fail, so you start to rethink life

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11. You start planning your death because you're sure you can't make it through this month

12. When you finish your last final

13. When the random kid who never went to class all semester shows up for the final and steals your seat

Bonus: Now all you can think is:

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Trying to figure out what to do in life.


I never saw the crossroad

Where I could cross n' roam

Under an arch or dome. [1]

I just kept on the road

That was laid out,

Told to hold out

Till it pays out. [2]

Now I think its too late

Been walking too long,

Classes are all wrong

But masses too strong. [3]

So I follow with my head down

And chest up, succeeding cause

I'm too scared to fuck it up. [4]

But I have a need to lead,

Top-down and gears up

Leaving nothing to the dust.

But if I drop out, I'm a fuck up. [5]

Is it better to live and rust

Or drive till it busts

With trust you can find the way? [6]

[1] - Play on roam/Rome. Starts the poem by expressing the feeling of being trapped in my path in life. I felt like I never got the chance to figure out what I wanted to do.

[2] - I think a lot of it was I was following what people told me I should be doing.

[3] - I have a feeling that it is too late to change my course of life. I'm in a college for business, taking classes about business, and everyone around me wants to do business.

[4] - This is saying that even though I am not passionate about what I am doing I am still trying to succeed only because I'm scared of failing or quitting.

[5] - I want to leave and lead myself, do something where I'm not following but I don't know how to do that. This part starts a car reference, idk I've been watching Formula 1 on Netflix and its dope.

[6] - This is the question I've been asking myself, wondering if I should continue on with my path or follow my passion.

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