If you tend to be a naturally introverted person, school and social events can be boring. People like me who didn't have many friends growing up because of being introverted or shy, Those 12 years were though. It wasn't until middle school when things started to change. Our middle school had the seventh grade and eighth-grade band members perform for the 6th graders to welcome them to the school.
I was mesmerized and wanted to be a part of it, But I missed out on that chance. I wanted to play some instrument, but at the same time, I was too worried about failing. So I never ended up joining the actual band. I regretted my decision around my eighth grade year when I realized all my friends were in the band program. But by this time I wasn't really able to join. It sucked because I was still trying to grow out of my shell and make more friends, and I also was still looking for a place to belong.
By the time Sophomore year rolled around I made my peace with realizing I probably wasn't fit in, or be involved with school activities. It just made me feel out of place, And with a big load of stressful things in my life I needed a creative outlet. But then, Two of my friends came up to me and convinced me to try out for the school's Color Guard. I was scared to death. It was about a three-week process where we learned the basics and a flag routine to 'He's A Pirate' From "The Pirates of the Caribbean".
A total of 31 people tried out, veterans and rookies all mixed into this mess. And To everyone's surprise we all made it. It made me super happy but, both friends I had on the team either quit or didn't talk to me much. I wanted to be friends with the other girls on the team, but still stayed in the back of everything really. I was awkward, out of my element, and very unsure.
But, even though it took some time I eased up and got to understand the girls I was performing with. By the time my second year rolled around, We were a family. My Graduating year I Thankfully became the Co-Captain, and it was amazing. I felt that a lot of my hard work had paid off. Thanks to the three years of marching band I was able to make so many friendships. I found friends on my team, and band members and thankfully I still talk to some of them today. I'm connected with people who have graduated before me, and ones that aren't even senior's yet.
Band taught me how to be strong, and that even though things are scary you shouldn't give up. Marching Band is a very underappreciated sport, art form, and talent. You will make everlasting friendships, Strong Bonds, and memories that will last a lifetime. I have seen marching band bring the most unlikely of people together and unite for something we all care and love for. I have cried tears of joy and went through what at the time felt like the impossible with the amazing band directors and instructors.
I will forever bleed my High School colors and will be forever grateful that I got to be apart of something bigger than just me. Band Became my home, and after 16 to 18 years of searching, I truly found where I belonged. Marching band is more than just something you do. Join band because It will become who you are, It will help you better yourself and there's just no better feeling than performing under those stadium lights.
