I Live With Superwoman

I Live With Superwoman

why I love my mom, and why you should think about taking some time to thank yours this holiday season


To put it simply, my mother is a badass.

She moved from India to the United States when she was 22 years old, will barely enough money to pay for the first semester of grad school in her pocket. She came from a family where money was always tight; her mother--my grandmother--had to pawn some of her own precious jewelry to pay for my mother's trip over.

My grandparents were determined to give my mom the money she needed to get the education she wanted--with one caveat: all their expectations now rested upon her shoulders.

They were big expectations, too: my mother, the oldest of three, the first person in her family to immigrate to America, the woman with STEM dreams, with tuppence in her pocket and her bank account.

They were big expectations, and my mom outdid them all. She found research work to fund the rest of her time in college; got a job to pay back her loans and to buy back her own mothers' jewels. She became a biomedical engineer--no, she became THE biomedical engineer, the woman who excelled in a stereotypically male field. She got married, bought a house, had two kids and vowed that she, like her parents, would always put their education first.

Today my mother is the head of one sector of a large biomedical corporation. She comes home from work every day to cook, help my sister with homework, schedule all the appointments that need to be scheduled. She seems tireless--a superwoman in every sense of the word.

But...Somewhere along the lines, my mom has forgotten how to take time for herself. She wanted to be everything for her family, a career woman with a heart, and she was--she is--but it is my turn to take that burden from her. It is time she relearns what it means to be a human and not a superhuman.

She is my example, my role model, the light of my life, and this holiday season I'm going to try and take a little bit of the burden she carries off her shoulders.

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10 Things To Do If You Are In The D.C. Area This Holiday Season

There's nothing like Christmas in the Nation's Capital.


Looking for something fun to do during the holidays? Well, if you're in the D.C. area this holiday season, here are 10 fun things to do to get in the Christmas spirit!

Go see the National Christmas Tree.

The National Christmas Tree

A beloved tradition, the National Christmas Tree in Washington gathers spectators from all across the nation, and is truly a marvelous sight.

Visit the National Zoo at night to see the festive event, ZooLights.

The ZooLights

After many of the animals have gone to sleep, the zoo comes to life for the holiday season, with light displays sure to evoke that true spirit of Christmas.

Attend a Capitals game.

A Capitals Game

After last season's win of the Stanley Cup, the Washington Capitals have contagious energy that brings spirit to both the season and the game.

Go to a performance of The Nutcracker at the Warner Theater.

The Nutcracker

Witness Clara's journey with an American twist, as George Washington takes the role of the famous Nutcracker.

See the holiday display at the Botanical Gardens.

The Botanical Gardens

Enjoy festive floral displays, filled with poinsettias galore!

Visit the National Harbor to see the Gaylord’s ICE exhibit.

ICE at The Gaylord

Sculptures of ice make art a part of the holiday season at the Gaylord in the National Harbor. This year's focus on Rudolph is sure to excite all onlookers!

Stroll through the Downtown Holiday Market.

The Holiday Market

Open noon to eight daily from November 23rd to December 23rd, the Holiday Market, which is located on F Street between 7th and 9th and across from the National Portrait Gallery, has tons of gifts made by local artisans and small business owners.

Go ice skating at The National Gallery of Art.

Ice Skating at the National Gallery

Located in the National Gallery of Art's Sculpture Garden, the ice skating rink makes for some good holiday fun in downtown D.C.

Walk through the D.C. City Center.

D.C. City Center

The City Center, which is home to many shops and restaurants as well as decorations that change every season, is a great place to experience some holiday lights and snag some great holiday photo opportunities.

See the holiday train display at Union Station.

Union Station Train Display

The wreathes and train displays in Union Station bring travelers and spectators alike Christmas cheer, with beautiful flowers and Christmas trees littering the station!

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