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Women's Bodies Are Being Dictated By Men, And Halsey's New Single 'Nightmare' Is The Anthem We Need

"I won't be caught dead letting a man tell me what I should do with my bed."

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It's been a rough week for women. Well, it's been a rough existence for women in comparison to their male counterparts. This past week, Alabama passed a law that will effectively outlaw abortions with an exception for cases when the woman's life is at serious risk but not for cases of rape or incest. The law also promises to incarcerate doctors who perform abortions at any stage of pregnancy for up to 99 years. What's worse is the fact that the law, currently the most restrictive abortion ban in the country, was advanced by 25 male Republicans who, and this is true, have not and never will be pregnant.

Less than a week after this law was passed in Alabama, a bill was signed into law in Georgia that would impose a life sentence or even the death penalty for any woman who has an abortion after a fetal heartbeat is detectable. Yes, the death penalty. While these abhorrent laws are posing clear threats to Roe v. Wade (not to mention women's health and safety), some are even pointing out that these restrictions are much stricter than those that existed pre-Roe era.

So yeah. It's been a week.

In a move that couldn't have been more perfectly timed, Halsey's newest single "Nightmare" was released just days after news of the draconian abortion laws passed all over the country. The song serves as a feminist anthem calling out all the patriarchal nonsense that rules the lives of women everywhere, consisting of powerful lines like "I've pinched my skin in between my two fingers and wished I could cut some parts off with some scissors," "I won't be caught dead letting a man tell me what I should do with my bed," and "I'm tired and angry, but somebody should be."

With a pop-punk background and a raspy chorus punctuated by melodic shouts, "Nightmare" leaves listeners feeling powerful, something desperately needed given the current climate. Lines like "Stared in the mirror and punched it to shatters, collected the pieces and picked out a dagger" and "No, I won't smile, but I'll show you my teeth" drive home the message that women are not to be messed with — something that not only women need to know, but lawmakers need to know, as well. We will not be messed with.

To support the Yellowhammer Fund, an organization that provides funding for anyone seeking care at one of Alabama's three abortion clinics, purchase one of Halsey's special edition "Nightmare" shirts here from which 100% of the proceeds go to the organization. You can also donate directly to the organization here.

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PSA: Keep Your Body-Negative Opinions Away From Little Girls This Summer

But our own baggage shouldn't be shoved on to those we surround ourselves with.

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It's officially swimsuit season, y'all.

The temperature is rising, the sun is bright and shining, and a trip to the beach couldn't look more appealing than it does right now. This is the time of year that many of us have been rather impatiently waiting for. It's also the time of year that a lot of us feel our most self-conscious.

I could take the time to remind you that every body is a bikini body. I could type out how everyone is stunning in their own unique way and that no one should feel the need to conform to a certain standard of beauty to feel beautiful, male or female. I could sit here and tell you that the measurement of your waistline is not a reflection of your worth. I completely believe every single one of these things.

Hell, I've shared these exact thoughts more times than I can count. This time around, however, I'm not going to say all these things. Instead, I'm begging you to push your insecurities to the side and fake some confidence in yourself when you're in front of others.

Why?

Because our negative self-image is toxic and contagious and we're spreading this negative thinking on to others.

We're all guilty of this, we're with family or a friend and we make a nasty comment about some aspect of our appearance, not even giving a single thought to the impact our words have on the person with us. You might think that it shouldn't bother them- after all, we're not saying anything bad about them! We're just expressing our feelings about something we dislike about ourselves. While I agree that having conversations about our insecurities and feelings are important for our mental and emotional health, there is a proper and improper way of doing it. An open conversation can leave room for growth, acceptance, understanding, and healing. Making a rude or disheartening remark about yourself is destructive not only to yourself, but it will make the person you are saying these things around question their own self worth or body image by comparing themselves to you.

My little sister thinks she's "fat." She doesn't like how she looks. To use her own words, she thinks she's "too chubby" and that she "looks bad in everything."

She's 12 years old.

Do you want to know why she has this mindset? As her older sister, I failed in leading her by example. There were plenty of times when I was slightly younger, less sure of myself, and far more self-conscious than I am now, that I would look in the mirror and say that I looked too chubby, that my body didn't look good enough, that I wished I could change the size of my legs or stomach.

My little sister had to see the older sibling she looks up to, the big sis she thinks always looks beautiful, say awful and untrue things about herself because her own sense of body image was warped by media, puberty, and comparing herself to others.

My negativity rubbed off onto her and shaped how she looks at herself. I can just imagine her watching me fret over how I look thinking, "If she thinks she's too big, what does that make me?"

It makes me feel sick.

All of us are dealing with our own insecurities. It takes some of us longer than others to view ourselves in a positive, loving light. We're all working on ourselves every day, whether it be mentally, physically, or emotionally. But our own baggage shouldn't be shoved on to those we surround ourselves with, our struggles and insecurities should not form into their own burdens.

Work on yourself in private. Speak kindly of yourself in front of others. Let your positivity, real or not, spread to others instead of the bad feelings we have a bad habit of letting loose.

The little girls of the world don't need your or my negative self-image this summer. Another kid doesn't need to feel worthless because we couldn't be a little more loving to ourselves and a lot more conscious of what we say out loud.

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In Case You Haven't Heard, My Body Means My Choice, So Deal With It

With all the political differences and laws trying to be passed, based on what a woman can do with her body, demonstrates how the United States decides to use their power and control others by the means of it.

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Since the beginning of America, there have always been minority groups, which include African American, Hispanics, the disabled, homosexuals, and women. Such minority groups have made it their responsibility to fight for their rights and earn justice for it. However, there has recently sprung up a debate on abortion policies, attempting to alter and re-write the rules on Roe vs Wade per state to pursue when or if abortion is illegal based on certain circumstances.

Now, I am not writing this in any means to deter you from your individual opinion on this situation or your perspective, but I do believe that I have a voice in this situation since I am a woman and this situation affects me if any of you individuals like that or not. And most of all, I deserve to be heard.

Starting off, in no means should a man, government officials, or anyone for that matter be able to decide what is acceptable to do with my own individual body, EVER. How have we become a country that thinks it is more than okay to tell what others can do based on the decision of another person. See, we have this thing called bodily autonomy which means we have independence over our own body, or at least we should. A prime example of this is when an individual dies, a surgeon can not remove the person's organs (if they were an organ donor) until the designated power of attorney says it is okay to do so. However, it is apparently acceptable and illegal for someone who has become pregnant through rape or in general is unable to care for a child to receive an abortion and loses their bodily autonomy for the following 9 months. How does a corpse have more rights and bodily autonomy than a pregnant woman does today?

Currently, the state of Alabama has passed a bill that makes abortion illegal under any circumstances and committing this now known felony, can lead to a very long jail sentence. In fact, committing abortion in Alabama (for the woman or the doctor) can lead to a longer jail sentence than someone who raped another individual. Wow. How is that acceptable????

Many states are following in Alabama's lead and we need to put a stop to it before it becomes too far. We women, need to fight for achieving our bodily autonomy and band together and show America that we are a force to be reckoned with.

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