After a break up it is hard to move on, I get it! However, do not make yourself feel less than because of a man. The truth of the matter is if he truly respected you, the way he probably says he does, he would want to be with you.

Letting go can sometimes be the hardest thing you have to do! There are so many times when you put so much effort into someone that it can feel like letting go of him is putting all that effort to waste. I know for me personally I put a lot of my own self worth in people (I know it is not healthy) so it takes so much for me to walk away from people. I like to believe the good in people no matter what, even when it means they bring no positive values into my life.

Don't settle for a booty call when he has been drinking, because you think it will make him want to be with you down the road…. Because HE WILL NOT! By you allowing yourself to always be available to him will only let him know that you are not worth being respected. He should respect you enough to want to hang out with you before 11:00 at night.

Let him go, there are so many other guys out there that would treat you like the queen you deserve to be treated. Tell him goodbye, and actually mean it because the minute you stop allowing him to walk all over you will be a game changer for you. And yes, I get it sometimes it does not feel like there is anyone else out there for you, so you don't want to move on past the boy playing you. Just take a step back and realise that the person you are supposed to be with will eventually find his way to you!