What No One Tells You When Starting A Fitness Journey

What No One Tells You When Starting A Fitness Journey


Deciding to start out on a fitness journey is one of the best decisions I have made. However, it involved a lot of tears, smiles, happiness and sadness. Before starting out on my journey, I wish I was more educated about what actually happens and not how perfect it is on Instagram. With that being said, here is what no one tells you before starting your fitness journey.

Don't Expect Changes Over Night 

*Does one sit up* *Checks to see if abs have developed*

Going into your fitness journey with this mindset will set you up for failure. I'm sure you are familiar with the term "good things come to those who wait," which couldn't be more true. Learn to love the body you currently have, so you can love your new one even more.

Weight Fluctuations Are Normal 

If you're anything like me, in the beginning you will weigh yourself at least once a day. Also if you're like me and if you suddenly see the scale go up even half a pound you have a nervous breakdown. DON'T be like me. Weight fluctuations are normal and can happen for various reason like water intake, sodium intake or you ate more carbs than usual.

Ditch The "Quick Fixes"

Celebs posting advertisements regarding "quick fixes" to lose weight are almost always scam and should be avoided at all costs. No tea or shake can make you lose 10 pounds in 1 week. Instead, put in the time and effort and you will see results, just not as fast.

Your Journey is YOUR Journey 

Checking Instagram to see the latest post from a fitness model and comparing yourself is the first thing you should stop doing. Comparing yourself to others is no way to live life, especially when a fitness journey is something that you should be doing to yourself.

Stay Consistent 

Working out and eating healthy on and off with not get you the results you are looking for. Allow yourself one cheat meal a week, and the other 6 days try to eat as clean as possible and work out as much as you can. Staying consistent will not only make you look better but feel better.

Nutrition Is Key 

Weight loss is generally 75% diet and 25% exercise. While having a consistent exercise regimen that you stick to, diet is even more important. Find a meal plan that works for your body and your goals while keeping it simple enough that you are apt to follow.

Don't Let Gym Fear Get The Best Of You

Thinking that everyone in the gym is staring at you is common. Although, I can assure that they are too focused on what they are doing, as I am sure you have been told. But seriously!

Also, if you are unsure of how to do an exercise or use a machine ask the front desk! They are always more than willing to help you out. Don't be afraid of not only the gym but the people in the gym as well.

Remembering your "why"

Remembering your "why" is SO important. Throughout your fitness journey you will lose motivation and even maybe gain some weight experimenting with trial and error. Constantly reminding yourself of your "why" will make sure that you don't give up. Even the days that you want to give up the most, your "why" will always be there to remind you why you started.

My "why" is that I want to be a better and stronger me. What's yours?

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9 Summer Cleaning Tips To Make Your House Spotless

It's time to get rid of ALL those clothes.


As soon as you get home from college for summer break, it's very easy to plop your stuff down and not want to touch the stuff you brought home from your dorm room until August. As easy as that sounds, the time is now! Summer cleaning is a great task to accomplish when school gets out because not only have you collected more stuff, but you've also gotten older and may have your own place at school.

Spring cleaning is essential to an organized life and can be helpful in the following ways:

1. It can help relieve anxious thoughts

Have nothing to do? You can always clean without donating items. For example, those bathrooms and floors could always use a scrub. This wipes away any fear or worrying and focuses your attention on helping yourself feel good.

2. Have a place for things you only absolutly need

While living in a dorm room, you learn to live with a lot less. This is a great lesson to simplify your life at home too and make sure everything you need has a place. Prioritize clean and clear surfaces. If your surface is not clear, you have too much stuff.

3. Redo your childhood bedroom

When we go off to college, the most common thing to be stuck in the past is your childhood bedroom. Use your time at home to make your bedroom look nicer with a new paint color or bedspread to make the space feel more you (instead of your five-year-old self).

4. Say goodbye to ALL those CLOTHES

Saying goodbye to clothes is hard. Make more space in your closet with a hanging organizer for scarfs and sweaters that take up a lot of space. Instead of putting clothes on a hanger and hanging them in the closet, vertical organizers create more space. One major tip is if you haven't worn the garment in over a year, donate or throw it out!

5. Shoes

One way to get all those shoes off the floor is to buy a shoe organizer to hang on your closet door. Not only does this prevent dust from collecting in the bottom of your closet, but you can also navigate which shoes you actually use the most. This way, you can maybe get rid of a few more pairs.

6. Trinkets

Trinkets are fun but can turn into major dust collectors. Limiting your space to five decorative pieces per room allows for a picture perfect magazine look. And of course, it's easier to dust and clean too!

7. Clean things that often get missed

Besides cleaning rooms, floors, and bathrooms, there are a few everyday items that get missed. For example, the microwave, bathmat, vacuum filter, the dreaded makeup brushes, and most importantly the junk drawer (eek, scary!).

8. Cleaning doesn't just have to be individual

Tackling any type of cleaning can be hard and it doesn't just have to be you. If you are still living at home, it's easier to get a family member involved too since they share the same space. Having a helper makes a world of difference and can tackle twice as much. In addition, have a cleaning weekend as a family affair for a great bonding experience!

9. Establish a cleaning routine

Picking up for 10 minutes by yourself each day is crucial. This establishes a cleaning routine to make sure those needed items stay in their space when not being used. Small tasks can help keep your room cleaner longer.

Make this summer clean!

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Why You Should Go To The Barre

Keep your head high and your heels even higher!


After going back and forth trying to decide if I wanted to try a barre class, last month I finally decided to. And let me tell you, it is one of the best decisions I have made for not only myself but my body! I tried my first class at Barre N9ne in Andover, Massachusetts (with multiple location in Woburn, Somerville, and Danvers), and I truly don't think I could have found a better studio. From the moment you walk into the studio there is a great vibe and the instructors are so informative and caring. If you are in the area, I highly recommend Barre N9ne!

It Is A Full Hour To Yourself

My favorite part of barre is it is an hour to myself. No phone, no distractions, just working to improve myself with each set. When I go to the gym whether I am lifting weights or running on the treadmill at some point I am on my phone responding to a text or changing the song I am listening to. During barre, I don't even think about who texted me or what email I have to respond to. It is complete me time.

The BEST Core Workout

During barre, your core is engaged the entire time. Then, at the end of the workout there is 5-7 minutes of actual core workouts. This makes it one of the best core workouts because instead of just focusing on your core for a few minutes, you are engaging it throughout the class and then additionally at the end.

You Will Gain Strength and Definition 

A typical barre class is a full body workout and over time you will gain strength and see definition. It takes about 5 classes to start seeing results. By strengthening each muscle group, you are not only gaining definition you are also strengthening all muscles (even the ones that are often underused and underdeveloped).

You Will Become More Flexible 

After each muscle group worked on, you will stretch. This is something that is often overlooked because people don't want to take the time to stretch during a workout and save it until the end, or even not at all. The amount of stretching done in a barre class will improve your range of motion and help to reduce any risk of injuries.

Mind Body Connection

During class you will often hear your instructor say to "focus on the mind body connection". But, what is it? Well, when you focus your attention on the muscle you are working, you tend to work harder and more effectively. This then gives you faster results. When you then focus on that muscle group and stop focusing on all the background noise of your stressful day, or what you have to do after class, or that big test next week, you are really able to focus in and have the best workout.

Your Muscles Will Shake (In A Good Way)

Barre utilizes micro movements. Meaning, since you preform many reps of the same movement involving specific muscles in barre, you are then working your muscles to exhaustion. When your muscles are exhausted, they start to shake. If you aren't shaking, work harder!

Through every pulse, squeeze, and tuck enjoy your time during barre. I hope you give barre classes a try because I know I don't regret it and I know you won't either.

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