I'm Not Apologizing For Being a feminist in 2018

More than ever, feminism is needed in America. Unfortunately, many people do not understand what feminism is exactly since they have an extremist's perspective in their mind.

Let me break it down for you real quick.

Feminism: The advocacy for political, social, financial, etc. equality of everyone.

What feminism is not: Believing that women are meant to be superior to men.

As a feminist, I am standing up for the boy who writes poetry and is not afraid to show his emotions yet is bullied by others for expressing femininity.

I am standing up for my future daughter so she may live in a world where she can earn equal pay, equal opportunities, and equal acknowledgment for her accomplishments. No more talk of, "oh she's a girl, she can't do that."

I am fighting for the trans woman who is being told repeatedly that, "God gave you a penis, so God made you a boy" and disregarding their identity.

I am standing up to a president who has a past of talking down women who intimidate him and disregarding there is ongoing discrimination in this country.

I am also standing up for some women who do not even realize the daily oppression they face because it has become normalized for them.

By ignoring that there is ongoing discrimination occurring in this world, we are only supporting the patriarchy, which favors white male domination in our society. Women need to come together, not only to boost one another, but to be the voices for those who are not being heard.

This also means calling out injustice occurring in our movement, so we can reform and become even stronger. For instance, I do have an issue with the Women's March when the "pink pussyhat" because it symbolizes all women are fighting for reproductive rights because "it's my vagina, my choice" in regards to birth control regulations and abortion. However, not all women have a vagina. It is understanding that by woman, it is not a physical definition, but a more mental and spiritual definition of what it means to be a woman.

As a society, we should all be feminists. We like to talk about how progressive America is, but that is a lie. If we keep letting discrimination go unpunished, we are only letting discrimination continue. If at anything, fight for the rights of the future generation so they may never have to face the struggles so many of us face on a daily basis.

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12 Signs You're From Jackman Maine

You know you're from Jackman just by these few things.

1. You never lock the doors

The entire parking lot at the store is filled with running cars, all of them with the keys still in the ignition. All are so easy to steal and yet no one touches them.

2. You almost never miss a sports game

Whether you are a sports fan or not, you almost never miss a game. Either you go to watch a friend play or to hang out, there are very few games that you have missed.

3. The cold doesn't bother you

I can't tell you how many times I've gone out in 20 degree weather in a t-shirt to do chores, or have shoveled off the deck in bare feet. Almost rarely the cold seems to be a bother.

4. You own either a snowmobile or ATV

Because what else is there to do in town? Seriously?

5. You've walked down the street all night

And you know that after 5, the road is silent. Unless it's on the weekends when everyone from Quebec is driving through.

6. You go to Old Mill and not the Town Park

Let the tourists go to the park and enjoy it, we'll just enjoy our sandy little b each.

7. You LOVE going to Slidedown

If you don't love the falls, are you even from around here? How can you not love going to Slidedown?

8. The tourists are hilarious

Now we won't say that to any of them because Jackman is a tourist town and needs to have the tourism, but some of the things that people say or do are laugh worthy.

9. Everyone has seen a moose in their backyard

And I mean everyone. I've seen one walk around in the Post Office parking lot, if they're wandering around there, they will be everywhere.

10. Hunting is a way of life

So is fishing. I don't think I know anyone in town who doesn't hunt or fish.

11. Everyone is shocked at your graduating class number

Every time I tell people I graduated in a class of 11, people stare at me like I just grew horns out of my head.

12. You know everyone


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If You Think Belly Dancing Is Sexual, You're Missing The Whole Point

Believe it or not, exposed stomachs aren't inherently sexual.


What we know as belly dancing here in America started in the middle east as a way for mothers to teach their daughters how to isolate certain muscles that they would use in childbirth, thus making the process an easier one when it was their time to go through it.

This cultural dance began with mothers teaching daughters behind closed doors where men weren't allowed to watch. It's possible that this fact helped cause some of the negative stigmas behind it by people who do not know its true origin.

Long story short (because I'm not looking to place false facts in this article), belly dancing moved over to America after a while and it wasn't necessarily accepted at first. Today, there is a multitude of belly dancing styles, including belly dance fusion which combines more traditional dancing with modern takes on it by blending multiple cultures or dancing styles.

You're probably wondering why a white girl such as myself is trying to educate you on something that clearly isn't a part of my own culture. Well, for those of you who don't know (or who couldn't recognize me from the cover photo), I belly dance at my university as part of an extracurricular club.

This club is easily one that I am most passionate about. I joined the club in my first semester as a freshman and have stuck with it for the past six semesters, and plan to stick with it for my last two. I came into the club with little previous dance experience and no previous belly dance experience, much like almost everyone else I've seen come and go.

I've heard of professors at my school who said they wouldn't go to our shows because it "made him uncomfortable." Why? Because our stomachs are out and we're moving our hips? That doesn't make our dancing inherently sexual.

We have a rule within our club that if any of us go out to parties, we cannot use belly dancing moves to try to woo guys or girls. Because guess what? That's not the point of belly dancing.

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