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When I Say "Have You Found The One?" You Don't Know What I'm Talking About

3 simple guidelines for deciding if an outfit is the perfect outfit

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When I Say "Have You Found The One?" You Don't Know What I'm Talking About
Jayla Bradshaw

We all know the decision-making process behind choosing the perfect outfit can be an unnecessarily complicated one.

Especially if you have no idea what you're looking for or even know what you want. And to top things off, is it even possible to find one that's fabulous but won't cost you an arm and a leg? Ladies have no fear for a solution is here! Use these three easy guidelines to help you find "the one!"

Rule 1. It's a hit on your radar.

What makes this particular outfit special to you? Is it any and everything you could've imagined? Or is it that risk you've been waiting on to get out of your comfort zone? Can you customize it in a way where is unique and screams YOU? Either way, it caught your eye so why not give it the attention it's looking for?

Rule 2. It makes "the cut" with your friends.

You know its a real "show stopper" when it scores the approval ratings of your friends. These are the very people who want to see you at your absolute best! Their job (that they signed up for by tagging along) is to be your own personal support team and to encourage you to find what makes you happy.

So get ready for the huge wave of compliments, flattery, and maybe even a few awkward-yet-lighthearted-and-funny remarks headed your way once the outfit is on. Also, it's a great way to savor some quality time with your pals!

Rule 3. It's all about you.

Your friends all have their opinions but remember it's you who has the final say so. Does the outfit make you feel comfortable in the skin you're in? Does it accurately capture you in the brilliant way you see yourself? You deserve to feel just how you look: ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL. If the outfit has any significant effect on you, say like an extra boost of confidence/ self-esteem or it just simply makes you happy, then it's a YES!

At the end of the day, clothes don't make a person. It's the person who makes the clothes. Since there is no such thing as a beauty standard, beauty comes in all kinds of forms.

It doesn't matter what you wear, more so as to why do you wear it. Whether it be for a small get-together with friends, a glamorous night on the town, or an extravagant evening like your wedding day, you can guarantee as long as you love the outfit, YOU'RE OWNING IT.

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