If you’re in a sorority, you have gotten the look before. 

After someone asks you if you are in a sorority, or which one you’re in, the judgmental glare or roll of the eyes suddenly makes you feel self-conscious, rather than proud, that you’re in sorority. It’s hard being stereotyped because of your affiliation with Greek life. I have found myself in situations not wanting to admit to being in a sorority to avoid the judgment or poking fun at the stereotypical clichés. At this point, though, I’ve gotten over it. I refuse to let my sorority define me. 

I don’t parade around decked out in my sorority Lilly Pulitzer pattern or wear my letters every day, but I am proud to wear them. When I put them on, I remind myself my sorority does not define me, I define it. I can shape others perspectives of my sorority. I can choose to make others think my sorority is full of cool and down-to-earth girls. And I challenge you to do the same. 

Don’t fall into the stereotype of the girl who is completely wrapped up in her sorority and everyone in it. Your sorority is great and so are your sisters, but there are other people out there. Reach out and get involved in other parts of campus. There is so much that your University offers and it’s easy to get consumed with everything going on in your sorority, but there is more to college than your sisters and socials. 

It’s hard to overcome the cliché that you’re going to be this b***** version of Elle Woods, but it is possible. I encourage everyone to live outside of that box we are placed in when someone finds out we are in a sorority. Make them wish they were in your sorority, too.