If you're an introvert, you know what it's like getting asked a bunch of questions about why you aren't going out, or why you choose to stay at home. Here are some more comments all introverts are tired of hearing:
1. "You never hang out with me anymore."
I don't ignore you because I'm mad at you, I just don't want to go outside and interact with people today. Some days I just need a break, I need to be alone.
2. "Why do you always stay at home?"
Home is my safe space. I don't have to worry about anything or anyone. I can do whatever I want. For example, I can watch Netflix, sleep, bake cookies, color, or decompress.
3. "You need to get out more."
I don't need to get out. I've had enough time interacting with people and I need to be alone for a little bit.
4. "Why are you so quiet?"
Sometimes I don't speak up because I have nothing to say or I'm busy thinking about what I'm going to eat for lunch/dinner.
5. "Do you even have friends?"
Of course, I do! Just because I enjoy my alone time does not mean that I don't have any friends. I just have to learn how to balance alone time with hanging out with them.
6. "You're boring."
I'm sorry you don't find binge-watching Netflix all day enjoyable, but that doesn't make me a boring person!
7. "Are you mad at me?"
Most of the time my answer is no. People tend to think I am mad at them because I cancel plans. In reality, I just need to stay in and be alone that day.
8. "OMG, you're going home already?"
Yes, I am extremely uncomfortable and I just want to crawl into bed already.
9. "Are you okay?"
Again, yes I am okay. Just because I spend a lot of time alone does not mean I am sad. I actual enjoy my alone time!