Several of my friends are going to reach a big milestone in their lives very soon; high school graduation. Their time in the public school system is about to end, and they’re about to start the journey into adulthood. Soon, they’ll have to start making some very important decisions. Some of them may feel like they have it all figured out. They have absolutely no doubts about where they want their lives to go, and some of them may feel a little apprehensive about life after high school, and that’s ok too. There is nothing wrong with feeling like you don’t have it all figured out yet.

Deciding what you want to do with the rest of your life can be a very scary task. You spend twelve years in the public school system, and now all of the sudden your first step into adulthood is looming closer and closer. It’s ok to feel nervous about it, but don’t ever let that fear of the unknown overtake you. You may not realize it, but there are so many people who have helped prepare you for this moment. You have so many adults and friends in your life who want nothing more than to see you succeed, and they’re still going to be right by your side even after you finish high school.

Even though it’s impossible not to think about the future, especially at a time like this, try to soak in every moment, and be in the present as much as possible. Make your summer as worry free as you can, and go to as many events with your friends as you can. You’ve earned it! You just survived twelve years in the public school system. All the nights you stayed up late working on homework, the time you’ve spent studying for tests and everything in between has paid off. Now is the time for you to spend some time at the beach or pool, or have an impromptu road trip, or just relax and read a good book, or pick up knitting, even. Explore new hobbies if you’re feeling particularly adventuresome that day. Whatever you do, just make these moments count. Don’t be afraid to try new things.

For those of you who are going off to college, my best advice would be this: don’t be scared. Granted, I just finished my first year of college, and I still have a lot to learn myself, but I have learned a few things. Work hard and have fun at the same time, and you will all do great! Another piece of advice, if you’re anything like me, and really directionally challenged, I highly recommend going to orientation, or taking some sort of tour of the campus, just so you have a feel for how everything is laid out. Also, picking a major that you’re passionate about would be my final and probably most important piece of advice for people who decide to go to college. Class of 2016, I’m very proud of all of you, and I wish you nothing but success! Congratulations!