Yes, I chose the college I go to because of a stupid, teenage romance, but it's not what you think. I chose UNCG because it was where my crazy, controlling ex wasn't. I chose a lesser know; lesser "viewed" school, because I wanted to feel safe. And it was the best decision I've ever made. Because I chose UNCG over NCSU, I have met some of the best people, made lasting relationships, and gotten healthier mentally. Not to mention, I felt like I could explore my options more at a college where I didn't know anyone well. I was able to find myself, and truly experience college from a new perspective. If I had gone to state, I would have been in fear of this crazy ex trying to cause issues, and I would have known more people there which would have made me feel like I couldn't escape from who I was in high school.

Of course, my ex isn't the only reason I came to UNCG. I applied to many schools, for many reasons, and overall UNCG did have the best program for what I ~thought~ I wanted to do with my life; like most students, that idea changed. Really, my ex is the only reason I even considered State, and I never thought I would even get in, but the fact that I did get into one of the best schools in the state made me think that I was meant to go there, and it would be ridiculous to go anywhere that wasn't "as good". Boy, was I wrong.

Because I got over that minor bout of pride, I chose the school that ended up becoming a home, and found out what it truly means to be "North Carolina's Hidden Treasure". This school has brought me many opportunities, and I really would not be who I am today without the experience I've had here.