Why Being Best Friends With Your Boyfriend's Sister Is The Best

My Boyfriend's Little Sister Has My Heart, Forever And Always

When God blesses you with extra family in your life, accept it, love it and enjoy it.


Even though I love and cherish my boyfriend, his little sister has my heart.

When people say "you're not just marrying him, you're marrying his entire family," it makes me giggle because little do they know how much I truly love his family.

Not only was meeting him one of the best things that ever happened to me but getting to meet his baby sister was one of the most special moments to me.

The first day that I ever got to officially meet her as his girlfriend, she had drawn me a picture of a rainbow and wrote my name on it from her. Instantly, my heart melted.

Growing up the only girl of two brothers, I have longed for a sister my entire life. I have clung to my best friends so hard throughout my life because I have always wanted that forever person.

And that is exactly what my boyfriend gave me. He made my heart complete without even meaning too. He gave me my forever person.

My favorite part of my boyfriend's sister is that she is so much like me, she's like a part of me. We eat the same foods, play the same games, are equally as stubborn and picky, and best of all, we get along perfectly because we both enjoy the same things. Match made in heaven?

Oh, it gets better. We are BOTH planner girls.

Yes, I am serious. And yes, I have bought her planners with tons of decorative pens and stickers... because... well... she is my other half.

Our relationship is one of the most special relationships that I have. Not only is she my other half, but she is my boyfriend's entire world. She is something special.

I am beyond thankful that I have such a special little lifelong bestie, mini and sister. I will love you long time, sister girl.

When God blesses you with extra family in your life, accept it, love it and enjoy it. God loves us all so much, we should love others as much as we can.


(PS — B you always will have my heart sister.)

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To The Dad Who Didn't Want Me, It's Mutual Now

Thank you for leaving me because I am happy.

Thank you, for leaving me.

Thank you, for leaving me when I was little.

Thank you, for not putting me through the pain of watching you leave.

Thank you, for leaving me with the best mother a daughter could ask for.

I no longer resent you. I no longer feel anger towards you. I wondered for so long who I was. I thought that because I didn't know half of my blood that I was somehow missing something. I thought that who you were defined me. I was wrong. I am my own person. I am strong and capable and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

In my most vulnerable of times, I struggled with the fact that you didn't want me. You could have watched me grow into the person that I have become, but you didn't. You had a choice to be in my life. I thought that the fact that my own father didn't want me spoke to my own worth. I was wrong. I am so worthy. I am deserving, and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

You have missed so much. From my first dance to my first day of college, and you'll continue to miss everything. You won't see me graduate, you won't walk me down the aisle, and you won't get to see me follow my dreams. You'll never get that back, but I don't care anymore. What I have been through, and the struggles that I have faced have brought me to where I am today, and I can't complain. I go to a beautiful school, I have the best of friends, I have an amazing family, and that's all I really need.

Whoever you are, I hope you read this. I hope you understand that you have missed out on one of the best opportunities in your life. I could've been your daughter. I could have been your little girl. Now I am neither, nor will I ever be.

So thank you for leaving me because I am happy. I understand my self-worth, and I understand that you don't define me. You have made me stronger. You have helped make me who I am without even knowing it.

So, thank you for leaving me.

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An Open Letter To The Friend Who Continues To Save My Life

No one knows me like you do.


From the day we became friends, we have always had nothing but support for one another. Although we have only really been friends for about seven years now, I feel as if you have always been a part of my life. You know me just as well as you know yourself, and I understand you in the same way I understand my own thoughts and feelings.

You have never made me feel pressured, insecure, or unappreciated. The mutual respect we have for one another is unmatched. We can talk to each other about anything; from some of the most trivial topics to entire life philosophies. We have grown and matured together, and I couldn't be more proud of the person you are today.

We don't always agree on everything, and I always appreciate your fresh point of view, but I have never felt more in sync with another person than I do with you. We share the same birth month, the same age, the same home town, the same anxieties, and many of the same attitudes and values.

I feel as if you know exactly when I want to be alone and when I need company. Since we are both introverted, we understand that the other person needs time to recharge. And when I'm sitting alone with nothing to do, I always get a text from you asking to hang out.

In some of my loneliest, most vulnerable moments, you have been there. When I question how many true friends I really have, you are always sure to make your love for me known.

Through high school, and now college, we have experienced so many life-changing events together. Some that have taught us extremely valuable lessons, and others that have shown us incredible pain and how to grow from our lowest moments.

I want to thank you for showing me what life-long friendship looks like. Thank you for always understanding me and never putting too much pressure on me. I see an incredible future for both of us no matter where each of our lives takes us.

We will always share a unique connection that cannot be separated by any distance. But, for now, I'm glad you're only one text or phone call away.

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