Being Proud Of Your Childhood Self

Dear Younger Me, It's Been 10 Years And I'm Still Proud Of You

Little Lovi, I'm proud of you.


I haven't changed much in the last 10 years physically; puberty was weak. But my mind has grown so much. I'm thankful for everything I've ever been. In the moment, I never knew how powerful my inner strength was. I never felt proud enough of myself, but I am now.

Everything you were makes me so proud.

You didn't have all the things other kids did, but you did a lot with what you were blessed with. You had such a hunger for knowledge, an insane passion for the things you cared about and a heart you were never too afraid to give away. You were wise beyond your years and so observant of people and vocal about the world.

You see the world as a blank page to fill with knowledge and you're so good at seeing the value of intelligence. That will start to go away, and you'll get tired of being forced to learn about things you don't care about. But you started in a good place to expand my knowledge on things that really matter. It will stay with you. It sparked free thought at a young age.

People would tell you that you're too young to have an opinion, but you never lost faith in your own mind.

There are plenty of people who will despise you for your thoughts and sometimes for your actions, but there will also be times when people are envious of what's within you.

God lit a fire in you and it's visible. There are times when you let people put it out, but it didn't keep you down.

You knew your worth. You weren't ever too afraid to do your own thing. You kept your interests and didn't fall in line with trends. It might not have seemed like the best decision as people left you behind to chase what was popular. But when people and what powered them went away, your inner beliefs and ways of thinking are what stayed with you.

Your values and morals have been so high on your list of priorities for such a huge part of your youth. That will matter so much more later than it does to you now. When you get to college and pressures come along, you'll know who you are and what you believe.

When you least expect it, people will come into your life and they'll know how big of a deal that is. There will be people who learn your heart and they'll earn the love inside it, and they'll be grateful. I can attest to this. No matter how alone you feel, your time is coming.

Above all things, I want to thank you for your strength and passion.

You held onto who you are and what you think. I know it got hard to be unapologetically yourself, but you did it. You've stood your ground and I'm proud of you for that. Your focus and intuition play a huge role in the balance of your future and goals.

Because of the foundation you built, I am still growing strong.

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When You Make A Girl An Aunt, You Change Her World In All The Best Ways

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.


My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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8 Reasons I, A Late 90’s Kid, Am So Thankful NOT To Be A Middle Schooler In 2019

2003 is where it’s at.


Watching middle schoolers in 2019 makes me so thankful I grew up in a time without Instagram and Tik Tok. I enjoyed my ugly, awkward, and braces filled middle school years.

1. No Instagram 

Gmail buzz was the biggest of my worries. I would come home and listen to 107.5 The River on my radio while taking selfies on photo booth (that never left my computer). I am so thankful I didn’t have to deal with posting selfies and looking up to Instagram models.

2. I was allowed to be ugly

I have not seen an ugly middle schooler in 2019. We all have our bad middle school photos full of peace signs and leggings under skirts. I’m thankful I have those photos to look back and laugh at.

3. Designer clothes weren’t a thing

Gucci belt? More like Justice monkey tee.

4. Disney Channel

I mean, what else is there to say.

5. Jeans and dresses were cool

Jeans and dresses were The easiest and most versatile outfit for any occasion. Paired with clips and a hair wrap.

6. Flip phones with keyboards

Verizon Envy. Pantech Impact. Razor. Chocolate. iPhones have nothing on the sound of clicking as you and your friends sit on the couch and talk about cute boys.

7. Platform flip flops instead of wedges

Juicy platform wedges with a bow. Absolutely stunning. Paired well with gauchos and a skin-tight tee. Easily the hottest outfit. Thank goodness we didn't have to break our ankles in flat form wedges.

8. After school we played outside

Coming home to play outside was literally the most fun. I’d pick a trampoline over making Tik Toks inside any day.

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