"Baby, It's Cold Outside" Gets A Consensual Makeover
Start writing a post
Entertainment

"Baby, It's Cold Outside" Gets A Consensual Makeover

The lyrics to the Christmas classic might not be as innocent as we thought

549
"Baby, It's Cold Outside" Gets A Consensual Makeover
Nate Ryan Photography

It wasn't until last Christmas that I really started paying attention to the contents of "Baby, It's Cold Outside" and began to take issue with the lyrics. In an age where consensual sex is a hot and important topic, I wasn't surprised to find that other people find the lyrics as problematic as I do.

Disgusted with the undertones of the song, Minnesota couple Lydia Liza and Josiah Lemanski recently rewrote the lyrics to be consensual, and let the woman leave like she wants, with the male voice crooning "Baby, I'm fine with that." The infamous original lyric, "Say, what's in this drink?" is still included in the new version, but is instead followed up with "Pomegranate La Croix!" The singer-songwriters are working on having the track be available on Spotify and iTunes, and proceeds will be donated to organizations that help survivors of sexual assault.


Liza and Lemanski aren't the only people to find the lyrics creepy and indicative of date rape. Many shows over the years have contested the content of the song through comedy sketches, including Key and Peele, Saturday Night Live, and Funny or Die.





"Baby, It's Cold Outside" was originally written in 1944 by Frank Loesser, lyricist and composer of the musical Guys and Dolls. He wrote it as a duet with his wife (who regarded it as their special song), to be sung at dinner parties before selling it in 1948. The following year, it was recorded for the film Neptune's Daughter, and has been a mainstream Christmas song ever since.

Ironically, around the time it was written, "Baby, It's Cold Outside" was regarded as an anthem for progressive women, as it was viewed that the woman's voice would very much like to stay, but is worried about the social implications that come with staying the night at a man's house as a young woman, noting the line, "My maiden aunt’s mind is vicious"--and would therefore assume that she, a supposed good girl, is having premarital sex with her beau. It can also be said that the line, "Say what's in this drink?" was a common phrase of the time period and refers to the woman wanting to stay, but is again worried about what society will think of her.

Whatever the intentions and historical context, it is still important to note that there were predatory undertones in the original writing of the song. In the call-and-response style format, the lyrics typically sung by a male voice were labeled "wolf" by Loesser and the lyrics typically sung by a female labeled "mouse."

It's likely that we find the lyrics so deplorable due to our modern day view, even though the lyrics were just seen as "flirty" in the 1940s. Today, the majority of rapes are committed by a non-stranger. Rapes occur on college campuses (and very little is done about it) frequently, with the victim often forced to take the blame. Women heading off to college are often warned not to leave their drink unattended at a party.

It's time to embrace Liza and Lemanski's new, consensual version, and leave the supposed progressive for its time period version in the past.



Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

91080
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

64641
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments