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What I Want My Niece To Know As She Grows Up

Sweet-pea, please stay true to yourself.

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What I Want My Niece To Know As She Grows Up
Maggi Medley

Being an aunt was one of the biggest blessings I've ever gotten. The Lord knew what he was doing when he brought you into my life. While being your aunt allows me to be your best friend, it also gave me a new responsibility. There are just a few things that I want you to know.

First of all, with me as your aunt, you'll always have a friend. No matter what, I will always be in your corner. I know that I'm not home nearly as often, college kinda took me away, but just know that I love you with my whole heart and I'm only a phone call away. If at anytime you ever need a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen, or advice of any kind, just remember that I'm always here.

Next, I'd like to say that I think it's precious that you want to be just like me. Every time I'm home, we have at least one conversation about how much you want to be like me. Now don't get me wrong, there are worse people to be like, but that being said I want you to find your own identity. It's humbling how much you want to be like me, but please take the time to find yourself. I'm not saying that you can't pursue the things that I did, but I don't want you to do it just because I did. Take the time to figure out what you like, and then run with it, I'll support your passions no matter what.

Lastly, I want you to know just how important it is to stay true to yourself. I told you to find your passion, it could be sports, horses, reading, science, 4-H, and the list goes on. I want you to do all of the things that genuinely make your heart happy, but once you find those things, don't let them go. Don't let the people around you steal your passion for the things that you love. Your uniqueness is what makes you, you. Don't be afraid to stand out, and stand up for what's right even if you stand alone. You have to stay true to yourself and the right people will love you just the way you are.

Promise me one thing wild child, never filter your soul to fit a mold.

-Love your forever bestfriend.

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