5-Things That Every Couple Go Through On Valentine's Day But Doesn't Admit
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5-Things That Every Couple Go Through On Valentine's Day But Doesn't Admit

This Valentine's Day, let us make it about love and less about anxieties over what our partner would like.Read on.

5-Things That Every Couple Go Through On Valentine's Day But Doesn't Admit

When you are in a relationship or married, Valentine's Day becomes even more important. You could feel the romance all around and love in the air. But apart from the mush and love, you feel something tugging at your heart. Even if itsy bitsy or in the darkest corner of it, you feel a bit worried, a bit anxious over what to make of it. Almost every couple goes through a swell of emotions, a roller coaster of a ride of them and it is completely okay.

However, while we go on hustling for expensive dinners and gifts, we forget that just a bunch of roses could do the wonder if you mean it.

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This Valentine's Day, let us make it about love and less about anxieties over what our partner would like. Read on.


Everyone in a relationship goes through ups and downs. However, on a day like this, the pressure is immense. Your friends are posting online, vacationing in exotic locations, getting expensive gifts for each other. It is obvious that you are going to feel the heat too. Ideally, your focus should be on each other and how you could be happy together. Maybe she works at a stretch and if you could cook a nice dinner for the family and give her some rest, I am sure she would appreciate it more rather than spending a ton on a weekend getaway that drains her even more. If you guys are going through a tough time financially, a bunch of flowers, a home cooked meal and some quality time away from gadgets and other distraction would do you both more good than anything else. The focus should be on your idea of happiness.

If you are single, this mantra works even better then.

The Never-Ending Dilemma Of Gifts

Roses are the ultimate Valentine gift. Usually, lovers focus on getting a bunch of roses and pay exorbitant prices for that. However, there are various other options that often get overlooked in the glory of roses. If you are confused about which flowers you should be getting your sweetheart, you can consider flowers based on their personality traits. Or, you can personalize a gift as per their choice. You can get them a cake, a box of chocolates, balloons, soft toys and greeting cards along with flowers. You can get the flowers and gifts from the shop or if you are unable to go to the shop because of your busy schedule, then you can search Online Florist in India and order the flowers and gifts online.

Performance Anxiety

Movies have rather created quite a hyped up job around V Day. You meet your prince charming or a damsel in distress and fill their life with love. Not to mention, an earth-shattering roll in the hay later. Now, fast forward to real life, it is the mid-week and you have been slogging throughout the week. All you want to do after a nice dinner is to hit the sack and not wake up until morning.

Dear couples, remember nothing is set in stone. Don't go by the movies, stories, and tales you have been reading. Create your fairy tale. Be your type of normal or extraordinary and let the love take over.

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