The year 2016 is coming to an end and I couldn't be more excited to finally end this dreadful year and start another chapter in my life. This year has taught me a lot of stuff not only about me but about life. Here are 5 things I have learned in 2016.
1. You can't change yourself for someone else.
This year I have realized that I try and change myself to fit in with either a certain crowd or a common fade. I decided to change that about myself. If I am going to change it is going to be for me and no one else. I no longer want to try and fit in with the newest trends. That is what makes me unique; being different.
2. Everything happens for a reason.
So many things have happened this year. I got in many arguments that I wish I could go back and either change something different or handled it differently. When mistakes happen like that you learn what to do next time and handle a different situation better.
I recently left my job at Stride Rite that I have worked for over 3 years and I just got a new job outside of what I am used to and I am so excited to start this new chapter in my life.
3. Sometimes the support you need is from people you didn't expect it to come from.
I really thought the only support I needed was from my family and friends. Well turns out the support I really needed was my work support. Everyone at Stride Rite helped me conquer things I didn't believe I would be able to conquer. They were so supportive of all my new life changes and even gave me some advice. So a huge shout out to Danielle, Melissa, Tom, and everyone else. I wouldn't know where I would be if I didn't have the support you guys gave me. I miss you all!
4. Traveling makes you feel free
This past summer I was able to study abroad for two weeks in Italy and Greece. Since I have been back all I want to do is travel. I love the way it made me feel. I learned so much about the different cultures and how every place is unique and I cannot wait to head back to Italy and travel to even more places.
5. Friends come and go, and it's not always a bad thing.
I have lost a lot of friends or I have gained new ones. Sometimes it takes a while for you to realize what friends are toxic and which ones are genuine. And sometimes if you lose a friend over something stupid it is possible to gain them back.
365 days of new realizations and 365 days of new lessons. Everyday I learn something new, so bring on 2017. I am ready to take on a new year.
