5 Must Reads For The Girl Who's Trying To Find Herself

5 Must Reads For The Girl Who Is Trying To Find Herself

You really have to take a look at these great reads!

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This year, I'm dedicating my time to finding myself. I've always loved reading, so I've been searching for books that would help me learn to focus on myself and my happiness. The first three books I will be introducing are books I have been reading, while the last two are poetry books. Under each, I will tell you a little about the book!

1. "The Self-Love Experiment" By: Sharron Kaiser

Put a stop to self-sabotage and overcome your fears so that you can gain the confidence you need to reach your goals and become your own best friend.

The Self-Love Experiment is meant to walk you through the process of removing fear-based thoughts, so you can fall in love with life.

2. "Live Fearless" By: Sadie Robertson

In Live Fearless, Sadie takes you on a thrilling personal journey toward power, passion, and purpose as you live at the center of who God created you to be!

3. "Girl, Wash Your Face" By: Rachel Hollis

Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are So You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be

In Girl, Wash Your Face, lifestyle blogger Rachel Harris shares the lies she's told herself over the years that have held her back. Covering everything from becoming a mother to running a business, Hollis tells hilariously personal stories about how shaving her toes taught her a lesson about judgment, or when using the word "tired" around the mother of a newborn-baby is dangerous, and why dreaming about a Louis Vuitton Speedy bag was actually a really good professional move for her.

4. "The Princess Saves Herself In This One"

The Princess Saves Herself In This One is a collection of poetry about resilience. It is about writing your own ending. From Amanda Lovelace, a poetry collection in four parts: the princess, the damsel, the queen, and you.

5. "Her." By: Pierre Alex Jeanty

Her. is a collection of poetry and prose about women, their strengths and beauty. Every woman should know the feelings of being loved and radiating those feelings back to her mate. This is a beautiful expression of heartfelt emotion using short, gratifying sentiments.

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How Happiness In A Relationship Is So Important

What is the happiness and love that we as individuals deserve when it comes to our relationship?

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It's different for each of us. Some prefer being showered in gifts, being showed off on social media, bragged about to family and friends. But, what is the one thing that all of those have in common?

That would be the unmistakable amount of love your significant other has for you, that they will do anything to show you that they love you unconditionally. We all show our love for one another in various ways. I for one love being shown the love someone else has for me in small things they do.

It could be a simple 'good morning love' text message or even just a hug out of the blue. Knowing that someone cares so deeply about you is one of life's greatest gifts. Knowing that another human being loves you and wants to be with you, it makes us drunk off of love and our heads float up to the stars.

However, when we don't feel that love, that connection, that reassurance from our significant other that they love and care for us back, it can be an extremely overwhelming and a lonely feeling.

We start looking for those feelings and connections elsewhere. In our friends for reassurance if we look good or blowing up their phones for attention.

We start caring about if other people find us attractive or not, we relish in compliments that other people give us. We start looking for that happiness elsewhere. It's not because you stop loving your significant other or stop caring about them, but we as humans need to feel important and like we are needed by another person.

When you stop letting your significant other know how much you care about them or showcasing your love for them, even if it's a simple gesture like holding their hand or holding the door open for them, they will begin to look elsewhere.

Now I am in no way saying that they will cheat on you, but your relationship and their attitude and feelings towards you will never be the same until you start showing them how much they mean to you just as much as they do for you. I don't condone cheaters or staying in a relationship that you are not happy in.

Yes, some relationships go through hard times like distance or a traumatic event. However, the way I see it is if you entered into the relationship, to begin with, you obviously cared about that person a lot and if they show you that they care and love you for the person you are and your past then they deserve the same in return from you.

Relationships are not always easy, they take time, determination, communication, compromise, and love to stay afloat. If one of you isn't willing to give your all and put forth the effort needed then it will never work. A relationship can't be successful if it is only one-sided.

Despite peoples life's being busy on a day to day basis, you need to always find time for your significant other. Because at the end of the day when things hit the fan, your significant other should be the one that will be there no matter what and always be by your side.

All in all, you need to treat each other the way in which you would want to be treated in a relationship and treat them the way they should be treated despite whatever chaos is going on in the world about you. Love is the conquer of all and should never be thrown around or not taken seriously.

Loving someone else is a gift we are given by God and never taken lightly.

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10 Reasons Why Dating A Bisexual/Pansexual Is Top Tier

From a fellow bisexual.

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Bisexuals can pansexuals can often get lost in the translation of LBGTQ+. As it is pride month I figured why not spread a little love to all my fellow bisexuals this month to spread the bisexual agenda, whatever that may be.

And of course, we can't forget any of our fellow pansexual friends, so here are ten reasons why dating us is superior.

1. We're pretty chill

2. They will probably check out other people with you

3. We're occasionally more open to try things

4. The community itself is like no other

5. We get the best of both worlds

6 We are great listeners

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7. We are definitely stylish

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8. They can help you explore your interest

9. If things don't work out you could easily still be friends

10. Bisexuals/Pansexuals are the most fun people to be around in general

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