It started with crying. My freshman year started will so much crying. I wasn't ready to leave me home, my family and my friends. The year is ending with laughing and smiling. Stressful smiling, but smiling nonetheless.
The year took a 180 once I began to make friends and attend events on campus. When you begin, you think you'll never make new friends. As time goes on and you get settled into your classes, it happens naturally. I used to eat lunch alone, study alone and drive home every night to avoid my room. Once I reached out to people, I met my current best friends, my boyfriend and made college a much better experience.
So, here are some tips for your first year to take a total turn.
1. Attend college events.
Whether it's at the library, the amphitheater or a general campus hang out; take advantage of every one.
2. Reach out to people.
It's hard, but it's do-able. As the most timid person that's ever existed, even I did it.
3. Study, like actually study.
I hate studying, I'm sure you do too. It must be done.
4. Don't go home too much.
When I stopped going home as often, I gained more friends and my college life benefited so much.
5. Start new hobbies with friends.
I've recently gotten in to plants with my friends. I'm addicted, soon I'll be living in a jungle.
Your first year is scary. It's a brand new setting and a total change from your normal routine. If you take control of your situation though, you can make it the best year of your life.
