10 Things Not To Ask A Vegetarian

10 Things Not To Ask A Vegetarian

No, this is not a diet and yes, I get enough protein...

Coming up toward the end of October marks my two-year anniversary of becoming a vegetarian and giving up meat products for good. This change in my life happened back during my senior year of high school where I decided I needed to change. Acne covered my chin and forehead, I constantly felt tired or drowsy, and the constant feeling of what I can describe as "bleh" took over my life. But over the past two years of transitioning meat and other animal products out of my life, I found that these issues gradually became controllable and I am happier than ever.

As much I loved my new lifestyle of living mostly animal product free, others were not too excited to see me do such a "radical" change. But thanks to the internet and my other vegetarian friends, I have found my experiences are nearly identical to other vegetarians and some vegans. Often we'd get similar questions from non-vegetarians on our moral, ethical, and health beliefs over and over again to the point where we are tired of the repetitiveness. So here are ten things that I've been told throughout the past two years as a vegetarian:

1. So, where do you get your protein/iron/calcium/B12/etc.?

There are a wide variety of plant-based proteins that make up the same or even more amounts of protein than meat sources: beans, lentils, spinach, chickpeas, etc. Same goes for other vitamins. Fruits and vegetables as well as whole grains hold a lot of vitamins and minerals necessary for our overall health. If there may be a lack in some of these areas, nothing like a good-ol' vitamin (or vitamins) won't help.

2. Are you one of those mean animal rights activists?

Of course I love and respect the life of animals, but just because I don't eat meat doesn't mean I'm heavily involved in the meatless movement. And no, I do not plan shove my beliefs of vegetarianism down your throat with tofu.

3. Is it all right to eat my [animal product here] in front of you or will you get offended?

Go for it. It's your life and your choices, not mine.

4. Are you on some sort of health-kick or diet?

Just because someone is vegetarian does not primarily mean they eat healthy. Cheese pizza, French fries and ice cream is sometimes way too hard to give up.

5. But don't you ever miss the taste of meat?

Meat isn't the only food on the planet. There are different types of foods from all around the world that don't contain meat and are probably as equally tasty.

6. *Goes to a restaurant with friends* Are you sure you can eat something here?

Lots of restaurants have vegetarian options either on the menu or you can simply ask for the meat to be left out (if possible). When it doubt: order sides.

7. Oh, so you only eat sad salads?

Refer back to #6. Both eating out and dining at home has a ton of different perks. Especially Qdoba and Chipotle. Buzzfeed pretty much sums up my point for this one: Burrito bowls are bomb.

8. If you were stranded on a desert island and the only thing to eat was a juicy steak, would you eat it or starve?

I find this a mildly unrealistic question - when exactly would I find myself stranded alone on a desert island? Um, I don't know? Whatever I would do to survive ?

9. So can you eat [obvious animal product]?

Although there are a variety of vegetarians that may eat some animal meats such as pescatarians (vegetarians who still eat fish), most of the time the answer is no.

10. Why?

This choice to go vegetarian was what was best for me. I wasn't forced by anyone and I didn't want to follow a "diet fad." In the end, it was my own personal decision and that's all that matters.

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How To Play 'New Girl's' True American Drinking Game

"It's 75% drinking, 20% Candy Land, and the floor is molten lava."

I think it's fair to say that anyone who watches New Girl knows about True American. This crazy, non-sense drinking game which pops up every so often throughout the seasons and first introduced in Season 1 Episode 20.

The game, as described by New Girl character and fan-favorite Schmidt, is 75% drinking game and 20% Candy Land with a floor of molten lava.

The point of the game is for players to navigate through the Candy Land-like spaces to the "castle," which is a table in the center of the room that holds beer "pawns" and the "king" bottle. The first person to reach and sip from the bottle wins.

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Here's how to play:

Step #1: Prepare the "castle"

First, set up your "castle." The castle is made up of beer "pawns" and the "king," a bottle filled with the alcohol of your choice.

The bottle should be in the middle of the table, surrounded by four lines of beer pawns. There is no exact number of beers necessary for each line of beer pawns. Choose any amount of beers that seems appropriate for the amount of players.

Step #2: Set up spaces

Set up spaces using pillows, chairs or any other objects players will be able to stand on. Place an equal amount of spaces around the table. You'll want about 5-8 spaces on each side, depending on the size of the room you're playing in.

Only four of these spaces should reach the castle, lining up with the parade of beer "pawns" and allowing players to take a beer pawn from the castle. For example, in the photo above, each of the chairs touch a corner of the table at the end of the line of beer pawns. Therefore, these are two of the four special spaces that allow players to take a beer. Unlike the pillows pictured, which are just regular spaces that the players can use to move around.

Step #3: Pick teams

Teams are optional. To pick teams, all of the players will place a certain number (1-5) of fingers against their forehead on the count of three.

Any players who hold up the same number are a team. Unmatched players can team up as needed or simply pair up with the person standing closest to them.

Step #4: Begin

Begin with a shotgun "tip-off" to determine which player goes first.

The winner of this shotgunning contest will yell, "One, two, three...JFK!" to announce the official beginning of the game. All players will enthusiastically respond, "FDR!" then quickly grab a beer pawn from the castle and run to any space they wish to start at, excluding for the four special spaces that reach the castle.

Step #5: Make moves

The winner of the shotgunning contest has earned the first turn. From then on, the order of turns will move in a clockwise rotation. During each turn, the player will move one space toward the castle and choose to play one of the following mini-games.

Mini-game number one: the player whose turn it is will count to three then all players will place a certain number (1-5) of fingers on their forehead. Any player who selects a number no one else selected can move ONE space.

Mini-game number two: the player whose turn it is will recite the beginning of a famous American quote. The first player to complete the quote can move TWO spaces.

Mini-game number three: the player whose turn it is will name two famous American people, places or things. The first player to identify what the two have in common can move THREE spaces.

For example, say it's your turn. You will move one space then choose one of the three mini-games. You and all of the players will participate in that game, and the winner will move accordingly. After this, your turn is over and it's the next player's turn (in the original clockwise rotation).

Step #6: "Play on, playa."

Continue playing by these rules until one lucky winner reaches the bottle and sips from its royal glass.

The bottle cannot be opened until every last pawn is removed from the castle. Any players who fail to keep at least one beer in hand, who accidentally end up with more than three beers in hand, or who touch the lava are immediately disqualified. Disqualified players can rejoin the game by shotgunning a beer.


You are now able to impress all of your New Girl-loving friends with knowledge of the workings of the epic True American drinking game. Know your limits, drink responsibly and enjoy!

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College Students Are Replacing Food With Alcohol — And Sacrificing Their Health In The Process

Drinking on an empty stomach can lead to "gastritis, ulcer, and malnutrition" in the long run.


Being able to drink whatever you want while remaining (or striving for) thin. The new face of eating disorders sings an oddly familiar tune, and it's spreading across college campuses faster than anorexia or bulimia. A trend noted by researchers was that people, mainly college students, were skipping meals or over-exercising to save or "burn calories, making room for drinking at night", with looking good in the forefront of their mind.

When I first read the Atlantic article discussing the alcohol industry and its shift to cater to our insecurities, I didn't see the issue. So someone wants to save calories by replacing their meal with alcohol? This doesn't seem like a real problem.

What I was missing, however, was that alcohol calories and food calories are not interchangeable. Drinking on an empty stomach can lead to "gastritis, ulcer, and malnutrition" in the long run, according to Dr. Mark Peluso of the Middlebury College health center.

In college-focused studies, the results are clear: vigorous exercise and disordered eating "uniquely predicted binge-drinking". Even more strikingly, those who used laxatives or vomited in the last month to lose weight we're 76% more likely to binge drink. That's a lot. And the mix of a negative body image, disordered eating, and excessive alcohol consumption is a disaster waiting to happen, on every college campus.

How did we get here? The alcohol industry is marketing straight to the vulnerable minds of young, self-conscious women. Through ads marketing "diet alcohol," public health researchers and college health professionals encourage college students to engage in what is being more commonly called "drunkorexia." Marketing campaigns veiled as Weight Watcher-friendly are actually fueling a new set of eating disorders, and college campuses have easily become the perfect birthplace of it. The need to be liked, perfect, and pretty combined with the drinking culture is a deadly storm, even if we haven't seen the direct effects of it.

I've seen it with my own eyes. When asked about eating and drinking habits, one college girl recounts that she commonly skipped dinner before a night out to save calories and get drunker faster on purpose. Another female student added that she could name at least 4 other friends who engaged in this pattern of behavior. Even more concerning, no one saw it as a problem. They thought about it as a dieting trick, some kind of secret to losing weight, a strength even.

The most terrifying part? After telling them the effects of drinking on an empty stomach, such as messing with your stomach health, there was only a series shrugs. Translation: it didn't matter that their internal health was suffering. The desire to fit a beauty standard overpowered the logic of otherwise well-educated young women.

If a beauty standard is repeatedly causing young people to wreck themselves from the inside out, whether it's not eating, forcing themselves to throw up, or unhealthy drinking habits, it's time for the emergency alarm to sound on our culture.

If you feel like you need to talk to someone about your personal health, or even your concerns about friends, click this link for information and a hotline number. You're not alone.

Finally, if you want to share your opinion on this issue, anonymously or not, shoot me a message on Facebook.


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