To The Person Who Is Afraid To Write

To The Person Who Is Afraid To Write

It's hard to put yourself out there, but you can (and should) do it.


To the Person Who is Afraid to Write,

Ever since I was in elementary school, I knew writing would be a big part of my life. It was something I genuinely enjoyed doing, whether I was writing cheesy songs, short stories for school, short stories outside of school, or scripts for God-awful homemade videos.

The best part about being a little kid, in my opinion, is that you don't know what true fear is. Sure, you know that you don't particularly like getting stung by bees, getting splinters in your feet, or losing your mom in the grocery store. But you don't know the worst fears of all, yet. You aren't afraid of failure, judgement, or conflict.

Sometime around adolescence, those are the fears that start to kick in. I'm not sure, but I think it was around this stage in life when suddenly, I became afraid to write. It was almost like stage fright, which didn't make any sense at all, because most of the time it was just me and my notebook.

This lasted all throughout middle school and most of high school.

I was afraid to keep a journal because what if - God forbid - someone found it? I was afraid to write for the school newspaper or anything that my peers could read. I was afraid to start a blog because, well, I didn't know how to start. I didn't want people to think I was incompetent, or judge me, or become offended or disagree with anything I wrote.

Looking back, I had no reason to be so scared. And the same goes for you.

I know how terrifying it is to publish something because there's always the chance someone will not like it or understand it. But you know what? You can't please everybody.

Write for yourself and somewhere along the way, you will attract the right audience. The people who understand you, support you, and agree with you are typically the people who are going to read your articles and stories.

If people don't want to read your articles, blog posts, or stories, then so be it. It is extremely unlikely that they will judge you or bash your writing skills (and how can they, if they don't even read your stuff?)

Write because of everything you will gain. Write because it helps to unleash all the anxiety from your mind. Write because there are some memories that are just too good to forget. Write because your article may help others (even just one person). Write because you want to and you can. It's pretty rare, and beautiful, if both of those words apply to you. Never let the fear of what others think hold you back.

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27 Things To Do With Your Friends When You're Bored

A little bit of fun for any season.

I am sure many could relate: you are texting or sitting around with your friends and no one knows what they want to do, everyone is bored, and everyone is flat out of ideas that are actually realistic and achievable. Boredom makes an appearance at it's finest moments... always.

Here are 27 things you can do with your friend in just about any season (some are exclusive to a particular season) when boredom takes over!

1. Find a local coffee shop to try out.

2. Or better yet, find a local restaurant that you’ve all been wanting to try.

3. Go shopping at each others' favorite stores.

4. Tie balloons with positive messages inside of them to random places in your town to uplift a few souls.

5. Cook a homemade meal for a homeless person and deliver it.

6. Get crafty and create a time capsule that you and your friends can open after (x) amount of years.

7. Make your own sushi.

8. Plant flowers in little pots for your homes.

9. Road trip to random local cities and do some exploring.

10. Have a photo shoot.

11. Buy or create a blank page’s journal filled art, writing, sketches, and pictures of your friends that can be used as a memory book.

12. Visit a pumpkin patch.

13. Go stargazing in the middle of the night with a blanket and a few midnight snacks.

14. Go to a haunted house.

15. Go to a movie with the group.

16. Have a giant sleepover with board games, snacks, movies, and crazy pajamas.

17. Have a game night with the peeps.

18. Have a gingerbread making contest.

19. Have a bonfire when it gets cool outside.

20. Make homemade ice cream.

21. Search on maps for the nearest natural spring or river and go swimming or canoeing.

22. Take a camera, your group of friends, and stroll around town taking pictures of your adventure.

23. Use the pictures you take on your adventures and create a photo wall in your home.

24. Have a "Madea" movie night.

25. Throw a themed party.

26. Write letters of encouragement to children (or adults) in hospitals.

27. Look up random keywords on YouTube for possibly some of the best videos ever.

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What It's Like Being An Introverted Leader

Different people lead differently.


When you think of the qualities a leader or someone in a leadership position should have, being out-going is often mentioned. However, I don't think that always has to be the case. I've been a part of many different leadership opportunities and programs, yet I'm still the same socially awkward hermit I've always been. Being out-going and extroverted doesn't qualify someone to be a good leader, just like being shy and introverted makes you a bad one, it's about your skills.

When I went to a leadership program at a summer camp, I often heard that I didn't talk very much or I was too quiet and shy for a summer camp entertaining kids, I should have been more talkative. I'd also get a few counselors coming up to be that when they were in the same program I was in, they were also the same things I was and not to worry about it. Even now, I'm still quite and relatively shy person, but that doesn't discredit my ability to be a good leader, or anyone else's.

In my high school ASB (Associated Student Body) class, we took a fun personality test to find out what kind of leaders we were; someone who likes to be in charge, be in the spotlight, more organized, or stay in the background. I got someone who likes to be in the spotlight, which was a surprise to me too, but thinking about it, it makes sense. I'm not overly out-going, but given the right motivation, I don't mind going up to people and striking up a conversation.

I can also say that at some point I have possessed all four of these personalities or traits over the course of my different leadership roles. The reason I'm even bringing this personality test up is that it definitely shows that there are different types of leaders out there, and not all of them have to be extraverted. I tried to find the one I took but couldn't find the exact one, but if you're interested there are a ton of different ones out there.

Over time, I've learned and worked on many valuable skills, like conflict resolution, time management, actually listening to what others have to say, and more. I keep myself up to date with my surroundings and what's going on in the world, and I still meet and hang out with people, when I have time. People grow and learn on their own pace, we should let them without overly critiquing them.

In the end, whether someone is out-going or not shouldn't determine the ability they have to be a good leader, sure in some cases it's better to more extraverted, but it's not a make or break trait. So long as they have their mind in the right place and know how to handle different tasks and situations, it doesn't matter.

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