Ladies, let's be honest. We always want what we don't have. Especially when it comes to our hair. For example, girls with thin hair always tell me how badly they want thick hair. And girls with thick hair, oh boy, do most of us wish it were thinner. But hey, if you are totally happy with what God gave you, then GOOD, because you should be. You are one step ahead!

I happen to be a part of the group of girls with extremely thick hair, and to be honest, growing up, I hated it. I wished more than anything I had thinner hair that was easier to maintain and style. But the truth is, I later learned to love it because I learned how to manage it. Like all good things, when you figure out how to treat something, it can become something healthy and beautiful. Which is exactly what happened in my case! After years of awkward teenage-ness, I finally realized it wasn't my hair that was the problem: It was me.