Let's face it America, the dating scene for young women consists of wannabe rappers, washed up jocks, and frat guys. With things like Tinder, Match.com, and Frat Parties there is really no way to avoid most trash like encounters. It is extremely hard to find a genuine connection with someone these days.

With a good majority of guys putting there worst foot forward most women are having a hard time figuring who just wants to get in their pants or really want to grow with them in the future. It could be because of them wanting to impress other guys or seem more 'manly'.

Some guys will be there for you emotionally but only to get with you sexually in the end, and ultimately to play with your emotions. They can also play Romeo to you, but also call some other girl a 'rose' behind your back real quick. Then try and make you seem like your the crazy one, break up with you for the problems they created in the first place, blame you for everything, and then end up ghosting you and also end up having sex with your best friend. Being a single female, or really just a female, in general, may get you unwanted pictures and attention.

All the unwanted attention can lead to many bad things happening, especially when you reject or react negatively to it. Things like Rape, Sexual Harassment, and even kidnappings can be a result of the rejections. A good example of what I'm talking about is the Mollie Tibbits case. I'm not going to go into too much detail about the case, but It is still very concerning that the man handled the rejection or really lack of acknowledgment.

I'm not saying though that every man on the planet earth will react to that level of severe negativity. While some guys have to resort to committing crimes to pick up women by lacing their drinks, real men should only have to rely on the way they treat the woman and by not having an overly cocky attitude.

There are good guys out in the world but lately, it seems like no one wants to be the nice guy because we all know the saying; " nice guys finish last," which is actually not true at all.

Girls want the "nice guy", we don't want the "bad boy" who thinks they are indestructible and that they can get any girl they want. Be more sensitive and vulnerable, really just be a decent human being and the majority of girls will want to be with you. Maybe if there where more "nice guys" out in the world, girls wouldn't be so afraid to fall in love.

Now everyone is out here cheating, no one is being truly loyal, and everything seems to just be a game to people. Yes, most guys are trash, and I Everyone should do something about it. Just because women all over the world deserve to be able to feel safe around a man.