Why Are We So Obsessed With Snapstreaks?

Why Are We So Obsessed With Snapstreaks?

Seriously, it's an issue.
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I am beginning to get so annoyed. Snapchat owned my life for a period of time which I am slightly unwilling to admit, and I am now coming to my senses. I was completely obsessed with keeping up my Snapchat streaks and insisted that I needed to have as many streaks as possible. When one of my streaks broke by accident, I came to realize that it literally means nothing. So why are we so obsessed?

If you really don't know anything about Snapchat, the "snapstreak" addiction stems from the fire emoji that will appear next to someone's name when you and that person have snapped back and forth for more than three consecutive days.

The fire emoji pops up and suddenly, your world is shifted upside down. You are now a slave to Snapchat, condemned to deal with constant, crippling anxiety if you do not keep up with and check up on your streaks every hour of every day.

For some, it's a science. Same time, every day, they send out a mass snap with the caption "streaks" dedicated specifically to keeping all of the snapstreaks alive and in check. For others, it might constitute a need to always be on Snapchat, constantly checking on and replying (but not really having a conversation) to streaks throughout the day.

So, what's the big deal about keeping the snapstreak alive?

Of course, in order to answer this question, I had to get the opinion of the people. I took to my Snapstory, posting a video of my headline with the following caption: "Have an opinion? Reply to this story with why we care so much about our snapstreaks!"

My first response was, "It's highkey like losing a friendship."

That seems to be the general consensus; it's a commitment. The higher the streak, the "stronger" or "more real" the friendship must be. In essence, if someone forgot to keep your streak, they forgot about you that day. And we, the self-centered human race, will not stand for that. "The hourglass is up!" a girl screeches when the boy she is "talking to" hasn't responded to her Snapchat all day. Translation: an "hourglass" emoji will appear next to the streak if 24 hours has passed and the parties involved haven't snapped each other in that time.

We have a streak. It's like you talk or text all the time, except with even less effort. But it's still categorized as a commitment. It was pointed out by one responder to my Snapchat that "people in our generation believe that having this small connection with someone will lead to bigger and better things."

In response to why girls care so much about having streaks with boys they're interested in, one said, "It's a compliment when someone not only wants to talk to you but also doesn't mind seeing your face every day."

So the hourglass is up. And the commitment may be coming to a close. Girls start to think, "He hates me, he likes a different girl, he doesn't care about me, he's bored of me..." and the overreaction continues.

Or maybe he just was too busy to open the freaking app today.

"It shouldn't mean anything about the friendship or relationship in real life," said one student. "If someone loses a streak by accident it just means they're living life away from their phone, it doesn't mean they don't like the person you lost the streak with."

Other students outwardly and vehemently opposed the snapstreak addiction altogether. In response to the question on my Snapstory I received a few, "We don't [care about our streaks]."

And it seems like that viewpoint is growing on people. How long can you keep it up?

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This Is How Your Same-Sex Marriage Affects Me As A Catholic Woman

I hear you over there, Bible Bob.
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It won't.

Wait, what?

I promise you did read that right. Not what you were expecting me to say, right? Who another person decides to marry will never in any way affect my own marriage whatsoever. (Unless they try to marry the person that I want to, then we might have a few problems.)

As a kid, I was raised, baptized, and confirmed into an old school Irish Catholic church in the middle of a small, midwestern town. Not exactly a place that most people would consider to be very liberal or open-minded. Despite this I was taught to love and accept others as a child, to not cast judgment because the only person fit to judge was God. I learned this from my Grandpa, a man whose love of others was only rivaled by his love of sweets and spoiling his grandkids.

While I learned this at an early age, not everyone else in my hometown — or even within my own church — seemed to get the memo. When same-sex marriage was finally legalized country-wide, I cried tears of joy for some of my closest friends who happen to be members of the LGBTQ community. I was happy while others I knew were disgusted and even enraged.

"That's not what it says in the bible! Marriage is between a man and a woman!"

"God made Adam and Eve for a reason! Man shall not lie with another man as he would a woman!"

"Homosexuality is a sin! It's bad enough that they're all going to hell, now we're letting them marry?"

Alright, Bible Bob, we get it, you don't agree with same-sex relationships. Honestly, that's not the issue. One of our civil liberties as United States citizens is the freedom of religion. If you believe your religion doesn't support homosexuality that's OK. What isn't OK is thinking that your religious beliefs should dictate others lives. What isn't OK is using your religion or your beliefs to take away rights from those who chose to live their life differently than you.

Some members of my church are still convinced that their marriage now means less because people are free to marry whoever they want to. Honestly, I wish I was kidding. Tell me again, Brenda how exactly do Steve and Jason's marriage affect yours and Tom's?

It doesn't. Really, it doesn't affect you at all. Unless Tom suddenly starts having an affair with Steve their marriage has zero effect on you. You never know Brenda, you and Jason might become best friends by the end of the divorce. (And in that case, Brenda and Tom both need to go to church considering the bible also teaches against adultery and divorce.)

I'll say it one more time for the people in the back; same-sex marriage does not affect you even if you or your religion does not support it. If you don't agree with same sex marriage then do not marry someone of the same sex. Really, it's a simple concept.

It amazes me that I still actually have to discuss this with some people in 2017. And it amazes me that people use God as a reason to hinder the lives of others. As a proud young Catholic woman, I wholeheartedly support the LGBTQ community with my entire being. My God taught me to not hold hate so close to my heart. He told me not to judge and to accept others with open arms. My God taught me to love and I hope yours teaches you the same.

Disclaimer - This article in no way is meant to be an insult to the bible or religion or the LGBTQ community.

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Double Standards Are Plaguing Our Society

What and how are double standards hurting our society?
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Why is that when a female has many sexual partners she is considered a slut, but when a male does it he is celebrated as a king? Why is it when a male wears makeup or paints his nails his shunned by the world, but when a girl does it she looks bomb? How can the pope support ending the gender gap, but refuse to allow women to hold spiritual leadership roles? It’s because we live in a world filled with double standards.

What is a double standard? Merriam-Webster states it’s “a rule or principle that is unfairly applied in different ways to different people or groups.” We see in our society that there are many double standards between races, religions, sexualities, and genders.

Many double standards are hurting our country and even our world. Many people are blind to the double standards that plague our community especially if isn’t affecting them, while some just accept these as okay in our society, but they aren't okay. Here a few double standards that are seen in today's society.

Gender.

  • Women are paid less than men for doing the same exact job.
  • If a man cries he is considered weak, while it’s alright for a woman to do so.
  • When a male is sexually harassed by a woman he is lucky, while it happens to women it’s considered rape (I’m not denouncing rape that happens to women)
  • If a woman asserts any kind of dominance she’s a bitch, but if a guy does it he’s a leader.

Religion.

  • If someone of Muslim faith kills someone the headlines are “Muslim Terrorist Strikes Again!”, but they never announce if the killer was a Christian. They say he was a “lone wolf”
  • If a Christian teacher tried to make the class pray it would be okay, and millions would support them, but if a Muslim teacher tried that the world would go crazy.
  • the KKK (who are “Christians”) is okay, they can recruit through their website which isn’t blocked in any way and even endorsed our current president

Race.

  • If a black person does anything they seem suspicious, but when white people do it, it’s okay.
  • When NFL teams win big games their fans destroy cities, but if any peaceful protest happens it’s a riot and police decide to throw tear gas.
  • If a white person uses weed their considered a stoner, but if a black person does it they’re a criminal.

Sexuality.

  • if a straight couple does anything it’s normal. If a gay couple does it, it’s an abomination.
  • Straight couples can mistreat their own kids and it be okay, but if a gay couple wants to adopt a kid all hell breaks loose.

Weight.

  • If some bigger over eats their considered fat, and unhealthy, but if a thinner person over eats no one says a word.

Of course, there are so many other double standards that affect other groups of people, but just having these few is too many. We have to do something about this! If we allow one group of people to do something we must allow all other groups to do so as well. This must change to allow everyone to feel equal if we claim to be an equal opportunity country.

It isn't impossible to change these double standards as we have seen double standards in the past be changed. such as a male could be a doctor, but a women couldn't. Or even a white person holding a higher position in work and black person couldn't. Therefore, we see a change can happen, but only if we choose to make it happen.

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