11 Life-Changing Movies
Start writing a post

11 Life-Changing Movies

You make the popcorn, I'll pour the vodka

11 Life-Changing Movies

I already wrote about TV, so my vast wealth of knowledge is already, for the most part, exhausted. However, as I am a man of many interests, I also love movies. For over a century, they have had a unique way of uniting us. From sorrow to triumph and everything in between, nothing can evoke emotion quite like a good movie, and I am often astounded by the sheer number of films that can stir so many feelings inside of us all, not to mention their diminishing recognition with each passing generation.

Which is why one of my biggest pet peeves in life is people with a clichéd favorite movie. You know who you are, and it's not too late to change it. If your favorite film is The Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, or Titanic, this list is for you.


One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest (1975) - Jack Nicholson's only memorable film (unless you count Batman, The Shining, Five Easy Pieces, Terms of Endearment, Hoffa, etc, etc, ad nauseam), One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest follows Randal MacMurphy through a mental hospital in the wake of his falsely pleading insanity in court. MacMurphy, as the only sane patient, leads the others to a newfound sense of freedom and, more importantly, humanity, as Nurse Ratched, the main antagonist of the film, does everything in her power to dehumanize the patients and break their will to live.

Lesson Learned: The human spirit is indomitable, even in the face of electroshock therapy. Nothing can stop you (except maybe a lobotomy)!


A Patch of Blue (1965) - Selina D'Arcey is a blind girl living in a run-down apartment with her abusive mother Rose Ann (Shelley Winters - one of the few movies where she doesn't die) and her alcoholic grandfather. While stringing beads in the park one afternoon, she meets Gordon (Sidney Poitier), an African-American man, who slowly begins to teach her all about the world around her. It's a beautiful story about humanity and selflessness, and seeing the most mundane of things done by Selina with a childlike fascination is surprisingly inspiring.

Lesson Learned: The unimaginable power of even the smallest acts of kindness, and that to be prejudiced is to be truly blind.


Edward Scissorhands (1990) - Continuing with this theme of how awful society can be, Edward Scissorhands is a Burton-Depp masterpiece (before we all got sick of them) that perfectly encapsulates both the petty, parochial attitude of the suburbs after they are exposed to the titular character, and the tragic glamour of being an outcast. It's a heartbreaking movie with stunningly beautiful cinematography and a lot of schmaltzy Tom Jones music thrown in.

Lesson Learned: Society (especially the suburbs) might hate you if you're different, but who needs their love? You're a star.


Sunset Boulevard (1950) - Generally regarded as one of the greatest movies ever made, this surprisingly modern film tackles the loss of prestige in Hollywood, a town with an industry supported by stars as replaceable as they are glamorous. Forgotten movie queen Norma Desmond (played by forgotten movie queen Gloria Swanson) makes a vow to return to "pictures" with tragic consequences. The film shows in graphic, vivid detail what clinging to memories and a youth-and-beauty obsessed society can do to the human psyche. Not to mention the fact that Gloria can ACT, y'all.

Lesson Learned: Don't dwell in the past. Move on, push forward, thrive.


The African Queen (1951) - I guarantee that this is the most inspiring story of two middle-aged people falling in love that you'll ever see. Missionary Rose Sayer and alcoholic steamboat captain Charlie Allnut team up to sail down the Ulanga River and sink a German gunboat at the dawn of WWI. I shouldn't even have to sell this one because Bogart got the Oscar for it and Katherine "Four Oscars" Hepburn (Meryl before Meryl was even born) is in it, but it's an amazing action film and a genuine, heartfelt romance that can appeal to anybody.

Lesson Learned: Let nothing stop you from your happiness, and if you think that's a cliché, you should see these two fifty year olds take on the German Army.


The Heiress (1949) - Catherine Sloper (Olivia de Havilland, who recently turned 99 - lemme hear you say heeeey Ms. de Havilland) is a plain girl from a wealthy family. When she falls in love with a man named Morris (Montgomery Clift), her father, fearing that Morris is more interested in the dowry than his daughter, threatens to disinherit her if she marries him. Good ol' Cathy, naive as she is loaded, tells all of this to Morris thinking that he isn't in it for her mansion, and is then surprisingly surprised when he doesn't show up the next day. Years later, desperate and destitute, Morris returns, begging to marry her. Her reaction is one of the iciest, most amazing examples of acting ever filmed. It's a story of pain, loss, and is still beyond poignant after all these decades.

Lesson Learned: Naivité can be dangerous. Snap out of it and grow up before Monty Clift breaks your heart. That, and it's better to be rich and single than broke and blissfully wed.


Network (1976) - One of the greatest satires in modern history, Network is essentially a two hour attack on TV. After being fired, an anchorman starts going crazy on air, threatening to kill himself on live TV in one week. Diana Christensen (Faye Dunaway) notices the ratings spike that this lunatic is providing for the network (see what they did? Network - network, pretty clever) and eventually he gets his own show, which quickly becomes the highest rated in America. No spoilers, but it all goes to hell real fast.

Side note: watch for not only Faye Dunaway, but for William Holden (also in Sunset Boulevard) and his amazing monologue where he refers to Diana as "television incarnate ... Indifferent to suffering; insensitive to joy. All of life is reduced to the common rubble of banality."

Lesson Learned: People will step on your face to get to the top and won't give a damn if they leave you along the wayside. You gotta be tough to make it in this world, kid.


Peyton Place (1957) - I cannot recommend this enough for anybody who disliked their town growing up. Everything from murder to incest, suicide to rape rocks the idyllic New England town in this mesmerizing masterpiece. I watched this for the first time in high school, and it really put things into perspective of just how bad small-town America really can be, giving me a newfound appreciation for my own.

Lesson Learned: Appreciate what you have and where you are in life because it could always be worse. You could live in Peyton Place. And something about judge not lest ye be judged.


Dark Victory (1939) - If you take away one name from this article, let it be this one: Bette Davis. One of the greatest actresses of all time during the greatest year of filmmaking to date makes even this, an hour and a half of a woman dying, an amazing film. Bette plays Judith Traherne, an heiress who smokes and drinks and lives a life free of responsibility until she discovers that she has a terminal illness (and we're supposed to sympathize with her? Poor little rich girl). Davis' transformation from the Paris Hilton of the 30s to a caring, mature woman is heartwarming.

Lesson Learned: Family and friends, more so than champagne and cars, make a life, no matter how tragically short, worth living.


Leave Her to Heaven (1945) - This movie will permanently scare you out of ever getting married. Gene Tierney gives a bone-chilling performance as Ellen Berent, a woman who marries her favorite author then proceeds to murder anyone who could possibly divert his affection, from his disabled little brother to their unborn child. Tierney's role transcends a two-dimensional villain and is a fully realized embodiment of the depravity of the human soul. It's just a shame that she lost the Oscar for this role to a real-life monster, Joan Crawford.

(Fun babysitting tip: if the kiddos ask for a movie, pop this one into the VCR to let them know that life isn't one long Disney production.)

Lesson Learned: If they're attractive, intelligent, stylish, and mysterious, they're going to murder your family. Never marry. Live like a nun. Die a virgin.


Auntie Mame (1958) - When Patrick Dennis is orphaned in the 1920s, he goes to live in Manhattan with his only living relative - his Auntie Mame Dennis. She's a wealthy, witty, well-traveled party animal with a heart of gold who never wakes up before noon. Eventually, with the help of her equally unconventional friends, the eccentric socialite teaches him to abandon his conformist, narrow-minded world view and truly experience life, while elegantly shooing away bigots, freeloaders, and generally boring people in the process. It's an incredibly smart movie that has (overall) stood the test of time, and it's practically impossible to watch this without taking away some inspiration (like never putting olives in a martini because they "take up too much room in such a little glass").

Lesson Learned: "Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death!" - Mame Dennis Burnside

Not all of these movies have a definitive, happy ending. Not all of them are easy to watch. Not all of them are even universally beloved. But these movies are so powerful that I have finished watching them a different person. I miraculously stumbled upon some of them at a time when I desperately needed the lessons that they offered, others I discovered by word of mouth and came to love. Some of these films are still held as standards of cinema, others are woefully unappreciated. Yet, in spite of notoriety (or lack thereof), all of them possess an individual message that will resonate with anybody. Watch one, watch them all, maybe you'll love one as much as I do, and then the next time you have to play an icebreaker game in class during syllabus week, you can reply with something a little less hackneyed than Forrest Gump.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less

19 Lessons I'll Never Forget from Growing Up In a Small Town

There have been many lessons learned.

houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

college students waiting in a long line in the hallway

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments