There seems to still be a stigma towards interracial relationships, even in 2017. Some still believe that others must date or marry strictly within their own race, especially a lot of older folks with an old school mindset. You hear questions like, "Are your parents okay with that? What about when you get married? Will you convert religions?" CHILL OUT! In regards to the media, people still freak out when there is an advertisement or a tv show showcasing an interracial couple and their baby.
My question is: why? We are no longer in a time period before the 1960s, when interracial marriage was illegal. We are in a day where all races should be able to love each other and should not be subject to discrimination. As much as we preach this love and diversity, there will always be that group of people who disagree. It hurts me to hear stories of friends having to hide their relationship because their family won't approve of their boyfriend/girlfriend's race. It is hard for me to understand why someone wouldn't want to be in an interracial relationship. Race shouldn't even be a factor when it comes to looking for the right one. It should be more so about their personality and the way they treat you, and if they are the right fit for you.
I personally am in an interracial relationship and couldn't be happier. When I first started talking to my now boyfriend, I didn't even think about the color of his skin. Race doesn't determine whether or not somebody is right for you. He made me laugh and feel beautiful, and that's how I fell for him. As I got to know him better, we learned more about each other's cultures, and it was interesting to the both of us. Two people from totally different cultures coming together to form a relationship...it's beautiful! Now that we're dating, we learn so much more about each other every single day, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Our love for each other has no boundary. I am blessed to be in a cultural, healthy and happy relationship with my best friend.
For those who are also in an interracial relationship, cherish the amazing life and love you have with your significant other. It is something so unique and special, regardless of what others may think. For those who are opposed to interracial relationships, open up your mind. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but it is unfair when others discriminate a couple's love just because they aren't the same race. Without interracial couples, there would be no diversity. Look outside of race and appreciate the beauty love between two people.
