Take Life One Step At A Time

Take Life One Step At A Time Because Your Path Can Be Completely Different Than Those Around You

Your path is unique; don't try to follow someone else's path.


When you are in an academic environment where everyone is striving for success, it is easy to feel like you are not doing enough. It is hard to realize that everyone is going at their own pace and that you should not compare yourself to everyone else. Your race is different than those around you. You should do things how you want them without feeling inferior to others.

While insecurities in middle and high school come out in ways where you feel like your appearance is not up to par with others, in college, academics account for most insecurities. I have seen a lot of my friends struggle with this and I have struggled with it myself. I feel like I am constantly hearing about people my age getting internships, and job opportunities, all while managing to maintain a perfect GPA. Hearing this makes me question if I am doing everything I can to succeed.

It takes a lot of self-reflection to realize that while you may feel like you are not doing enough, you are if you are doing all you can handle. Not everyone can handle the same amount of things. Your roommate may be taking 18 credits while juggling an internship and a part-time job beautifully, but you may have trouble doing that. If taking 12 credits and having an internship, while doing some extracurriculars is what makes you happy, then continue doing that.

It is very important to strive for success and to push yourself out of your comfort zone, but it is also vital for you to take a step back and only commit to the number of things you will be able to accomplish well. It is better to do less very well than to do many things but not be good at any of them.

Stressing out a ton does not help anyone. It does not help your immune system at all. It hurts your productivity in school and in a professional setting as well. A little bit of stress keeps you motivated, but when you overload your mind and body, the damage caused can be irreversible. Only do the things you can handle doing, and if you realize that your schedule and workload is becoming too much, figure out what you can do to reduce the stress. Consider taking steps to manage your time better and if that does not work, figure out what you can cut out of your life so that you can excel in all other areas.

Stop comparing yourself to everyone else and realize that you need to take life one step at a time and if your friends are taking 3 steps at a time, you do not need to follow suit, because you might fall along the way.

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To The Nursing Major During The Hardest Week Of The Year

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.


To the Nursing Major During Finals Week,

I know you're tired, I know you're stressed, and I know you feel like you can't go on. I know that no part of this seems fair, and I know you are by far the biggest critic of yourself. I know that you've thought about giving up. I know that you feel alone. I know that you wonder why in the world you chose one of the hardest college majors, especially on the days it leaves you feeling empty and broken.

But, I also know that you love nursing school. I know your eyes light up when you're with patients, and I know your heart races when you think of graduation. I know that you love the people that you're in school with, like truly, we're-all-in-this-together, family type of love. I know that you look at the older nurses with admiration, just hoping and praying that you will remain that calm and composed one day. I know that every time someone asks what your college major is that you beam with pride as you tell them it's nursing, and I know that your heart skips a beat knowing that you are making a difference.

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that a failed class doesn't mean you aren't meant to do this. I know that a 'C' on a test that you studied so. dang. hard. for does not mean that you are not intelligent. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.

I know that nursing school isn't fair. I know you wish it was easier. I know that some days you can't remember why it's worth it. I know you want to go out and have fun. I know that staying up until 1:00 A.M. doing paperwork, only to have to be up and at clinicals before the sun rises is not fair. I know that studying this much only to be failing the class is hard. I know you wish your friends and family understood. I know that this is difficult.

Nursing school isn't glamorous, with the white lab coat and stethoscope. Nursing school is crying, randomly and a lot. Nursing school is exhaustion. Nursing school is drinking so much coffee that you lose track. Nursing school is being so stressed that you can't eat. Nursing school is four cumulative finals jam-packed into one week that is enough to make you go insane.

But, nursing school is worth it. I know that when these assignments are turned in and finals are over, that you will find the motivation to keep going. I know that one good day of making a difference in a patient's life is worth a hundred bad days of nursing school.

Keep hanging in there, nursing majors. It'll all be worth it— this I know, for sure.

So, if you have a nursing major in your life, hug them and tell them that you're proud of them. Nursing school is tough, nursing school is scary, and nursing school is overwhelming; but a simple 'thank-you' from someone we love is all we need to keep going.


A third-year nursing student who knows

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To The High School Graduating Seniors

I know you're ready, but be ready.



I am not going to say anything about senioritis because I was ready to get out of there and I'm sure you are too; however, in your last months living at home you should take advantage of the luxuries you will not have in a college dorm. The part of college seen in movies is great, the rest of it is incredibly inconvenient. It is better to come to terms with this While you still have plenty of time to prepare and enjoy yourself.

Perhaps one of the most annoying examples is the shower. Enjoy your hot, barefoot showers now because soon enough you will have no water pressure and a drain clogged with other people's hair. Enjoy touching your feet to the floor in the shower and the bathroom because though it seems weird, it's a small thing taken away from you in college when you have to wear shoes everywhere.

Enjoy your last summer with your friends. After this summer, any free time you take is a sacrifice. For example, if you want to go home for the summer after your freshman year and be with your friends, you have to sacrifice an internship. If you sacrifice an internship, you risk falling behind on your resume, and so on. I'm not saying you can't do that, but it is not an easy choice anymore.

Get organized. If you're like me you probably got good grades in high school by relying on your own mind. You think I can remember what I have to do for tomorrow. In college, it is much more difficult to live by memory. There are classes that only meet once or twice a week and meeting and appointments in between that are impossible to mentally keep straight. If you do not yet have an organizational system that works for you, get one.

I do not mean to sound pessimistic about school. College is great and you will meet a lot of people and make a lot of memories that will stick with you for most of your life. I'm just saying be ready.

-A freshman drowning in work

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