15 Ways College Is Nothing Like High School

15 Ways College Is Nothing Like High School

No one prepared me for THIS.

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The first semester is rapidly coming to an end with Thanksgiving break among us and finals a month away. These first few months have been ridden with new experiences, lessons to be learned, and reality checks to go around. The most important lesson I reflect on, however, is the fact that high school does not prepare you for what college has to throw at you.

1. AP/IB classes don’t prepare you for the intensity of a college course.

Don't get me wrong, I'm grateful for the AP credit, but I truly wonder if College Board believes their curriculum accurately represents a college class. The minute I sat down in my first ECN 203 lecture, I knew it was nothing similar to high school economics. There are no demonstrations, nor are there study guides. Powerpoints contain minimal words and certainly no pneumonic devices.

2. No one forces you to go to class.

This has been my biggest enemy. Mom isn't here to drag me out of bed and send me on my way with coffee every morning, so if I want to stay in bed through my 8 a.m. AND my 9:30, that's all on me.

3. Sometimes you have four exams and a 10 page paper due in one week; you just have to suck it up and crank it out.

There's no more convincing the teacher to push the test back by a week. If it's in the syllabus, it's usually non-negotiable. Crying in the library only lasts for a few hours. Eventually, that paper has to be written and those exams have to be taken.

4. When your professor says read the textbook, read the damn textbook.

It's easy to get away with ignoring the twenty-page reading assignment the teacher leaves on the board in high school. No one ever read it anyway. Try falling five chapters behind in a college psychology class and I promise you will have wished to have read the textbook. Professors take exam questions right from the book, so there goes that two-point multiple choice question.

5. You can study for an exam for 14 hours straight and still show up feeling completely unprepared.

I still don't know how to properly study for a college exam. There's no more TI-84 calculator to write the answers in the Y= section. Sometimes a 16-page study guide and 127 notecards just don't cut it for a business professor.

6. Going to bed by 10:30 is a thing of the past.

No one ever expects their sleep schedule to be ruined. I still hear high school friends say they're going to turn in early around 11:30. Sorry honey, but one minute you're managing an eight hour per night sleep schedule and then you're pulling your first all-nighter at the library and still making it to class the next morning.

7. The library is your new home.

Imagine stepping foot in a library back in high school to do homework: weird, right? In college, you live, breathe, eat, and sleep in the library.

8. Being a broke college student is not an understatement.

As a shopping addict, I can attest to this. I won't share how much money I've spent since I got to school since someone is bound to yell at me, but when there's food to eat, clothes to buy, and bar covers to pay, the account dropped below $25 notification comes all too soon.

9. You call your mom for every little problem.

My mom is my personal reminder app, therapist, doctor, and of course, best friend. I call her when health services can’t give me an accurate diagnosis. I call her when I need advice. I call her when I probably failed an exam. At this point, she's probably sick of how often I call, but she seems to know everything about anything when I need her.

10. If you thought you drank a lot of coffee in high school, just wait until your first all nighter.

When you haven't slept in the past 24 hours, sometimes five shots of espresso aren't enough to keep you going through your 8 a.m. The only solution is to grab another three by 9:30. I'm not kidding either.

11. A lot of socks will go missing in the laundry room.

I'm sorry, but I've been here for three months and I've gone to Target on four separate occasions to replenish my sock collection. No one stole them, they just get lost in the abyss of the communal laundry room. Trust me, you'll miss mom doing your laundry.

12. Don’t expect to put on a full face of makeup and dress cute for your 8 a.m. class.

I was certainly guilty of this back in high school. Trust me, I'm lucky if I can roll out of bed ten minutes before class and wear the same sweatshirt I wore to bed.

13. Falling asleep at any point in the day, in random places is completely normal.

I knew so many people who were afraid to fall asleep in public because maybe they look weird or people would take pictures of them. Walk into the library, Panasci lounge, the lobby of any dorm, there's bound to be at least one person passed out at any given point in the day.

14. If you thought spirit week was crazy, wait for your first tailgate.

High school social life is nothing compared to a college social life. When you live at home, it's hard to just leave the house at 11 p.m. and go to a friends house. Here, you walk down the hall and barge right into your friend's room at all hours of the night.

On the weekends, there are no parents restricting the debauchery and setting a curfew, so coming home at 6 a.m. is normal and so is day drinking at 10 a.m. for the tailgate.

15. Telling me to be an adult doesn’t mean I actually know how to be one.

People will tell you that attending college is the next step in adulthood, but no one ever actually tells you how to be an adult. Don't ask me how to write a check, or which fork to use at a formal dinner, or even how to open my mailbox. This is what high school should have taught us. Instead, I know all too much about the mitochondria of a cell and I'm not even a biology major.

College is full of new opportunities and new faces, but in all honesty, it's one of the hardest adjustments to adulthood. It's a learning experience and some adapt faster than others, but even if you attended a college prep school, high school didn't prepare you for this.

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30 First-Apartment Essentials College Kids Forget To Buy At Target And Later Order On Amazon

Don't wait until you need to take something out of the oven to realize that you don't have any oven mitts.

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If you're anything like I am, you're beyond excited to start planning and shopping for your first apartment. It's easy to get wrapped up in the fun stuff for your first apartment, trust me, as a former Bed Bath & Beyond employee I could spend hours wandering through shower curtains and bedding.

Before you get too carried away there are just some essential things that you'll need, but they aren't as much fun to pick out. Don't wait until you need to take something out of the oven to realize that you don't have any oven mitts, because I really don't see that ending well for you (I may or may not know that from personal experience).

1. Oven mitts

Gets those oven mitts because the sleeve of your sweater might seem like it will work, but I'm living proof that it won't, most sweaters have holes.

2. Trash bags

Don't wait until you need to throw something away to realize you don't have them.

3. Hand soap

It's not like a dorm bathroom where the maintenance staff refills a soap dispenser that's drilled into the wall. You're on your own kid.

4. Toilet paper

Again, no staff replacing it for you. Stay on top of it and make sure you always replace an empty roll, especially if you have roommates.

5. Water filter or pitcher

This one depends on whether your water is safe to drink or not, but be prepared. You don't want to move in under the summer sun only to realize you don't have any drinkable water at your snazzy new pad.

6. Tools

Hammers, screwdrivers, all that jazz. If you're moving in some furniture you're probably going to need tools to put it together.

7. Lighting

You don't want to be unpacking and stumbling around a new space in the dark your first night. Know what lighting is built in and where you might need to add some light.

8. Silverware organizer

Ok, so you probably remembered to pack the silverware, but do you really want to throw it all in a pile in a drawer? That's a good way to grab the wrong end of a knife by accident, maybe get some dividers to keep your silverware nice and sorted.

9. Dish towels

Most people think about bath towels, but if you're not used to having a kitchen you might not have thought of dish towels. You're going to need those when you're whipping up your favorite dinner.

10. Measuring cups

I'm a huge advocate for estimating and guessing in the kitchen, but if you're baking anything at all you should probably at least have some measuring utensils as a guide.

11. Bottle opener and corkscrew

You're going to want to crack open a drink and celebrate your first night in the new place. Wouldn't it be a buzzkill if you couldn't even get the drinks open?

12. Sponges

You have to be able to clean the counters and the dishes when you're done being an expert chef!

13. Paper towels

Spills happen, and you don't always want to clean them with your nice towels.

14. Toilet plunger

It's one of those things you never really think about... that is, until you need one.

15. Air freshner

You know, for after you use the toilet plunger.

16. Extension cords

You probably have a larger space than you're used to, sometimes those cords that come with all your new electronics just aren't quite long enough.

17. Utensil container

A little round pot or bucket is the perfect place to put all of your kitchen utensils. Things like spatulas and whisks will take up space in your drawers and create clutter. Plus, keeping them out makes them easier to grab when you're whipping up some food.

18. Batteries

There's nothing worse than getting your new TV all set up and realizing you can't use the remote.

19. Curtains

If you need darkness to sleep, you want to make sure you get those bedroom curtains up and ready to roll.

20. Toilet bowl brush

Sorry, but I'm certainly not reaching in there with my hands.

21. Ice cube trays

To keep you cool as a cucumber during this stressful time.

22. Can opener

Try prying a can open with your hands. I dare you.

23. Stain remover

For when you try to pry the can open with your hands and manage to spray tomato sauce all over yourself.

24. Carbon monoxide/Smoke detectors

Cause we don't want any tragedies here.

25. Collander

We both know you will be making pasta every night, so you're going to need to drain it.

26. Coasters

You definitely don't want to ruin your super fancy new Ikea table.

27. Dry erase board

No need to argue over who should take out the trash, just make sure to write down everyone's chores.

28. Underbed storage

On a college budget there's no way you can expect a walk-in closet, those clothes and shoes will have to go somewhere.

29. Drying rack

For when the dryer in your building inevitably stops working.

30. Step stool

If you're short, like me, you need a little help reaching that top shelf.

Hopefully this list has helped you feel a little more prepared to move into your first apartment. The decorating and planning is so much more enjoyable when you know you have all of your bases covered. I wish you the best of luck with your first major endeavor in the world of adulting!

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I'm About To Burst, Laughing At The People Who Thought My Pregnancy Meant I Had To Drop Out Of College

I get stared at in the halls and asked if I am going to drop out. Here are ways being a pregnant student has changed my college experience.

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I have been pregnant the entire time that I have been in graduate school. It was not how I planned to experience grad school, but it has opened my eyes to a whole new perspective and will give me a lovely son (seriously, any second now). There are certain things that I did not realize about being a pregnant student until I experienced it, and maybe my experiences can help better prepare other women, or give them something to relate to since pregnant students are such a rare breed.

As a grad student and a 25-year-old, I am around the average age to have my first child in America. I am not dependent on my parents and the world does not treat me like a child anymore.

However, since I decided to pursue my master's degree, I feel that people are not used to seeing pregnant and student in the same sentence without gasping.

When I first told my father, his first reaction was to ask me if I was to going to drop out.

This became a recurrent reaction from my family and friends (which my boyfriend who is also a student was never asked once). I did not expect the hesitant reactions and it made me feel shameful to be a pregnant student. As my expecting belly grew I always noticed that people on campus would stare at my stomach.

As I walked past, their eyes followed my belly like I had a giant red felt "A" on my chest.

None of my classmates are pregnant and thinking back, I can't remember ever seeing a pregnant woman in all of my five years of college. Since none of my classmates were pregnant, I felt like I had no one to relate to. There are a lot of things that pregnancy effects, besides the baby in the tummy part. I could not go out and get drinks with my classmates and bond with them the way that they were all doing. I could not relate to them fashionably because maternity clothes are heinous. I also feel like pregnancy put up a barrier because I would have a baby eventually and will always be busy, so why bother?

Pregnancy side effects would sometimes take a toll on my school work. In the first trimester, I could barely get out of bed because I was so tired. I could easily have slept 14 hours straight and being a working student did not help. I would seep through some of my classes and had to take the hit to my attendance points. I also have "pregnancy brain." Pregnancy brain is a real thing and is not well known enough. My mind can be so scattered that I forget my friend's names while I am speaking to them. I think it is October when it is March. Pregnancy brain has made me forget that I even go to school or that I work in twenty minutes. I missed due dates or completely misread instructions on assignments. For someone who needs A's on every assignment to function, it hurt because I would never make that mistake otherwise.

There are also benefits to being a pregnant student. I am never hungover and I have never been tempted to ditch a night class for a drinking holiday.

Pregnancy has allowed me to prioritize my school work and ignore the college lifestyle.

Before I knew I was pregnant, I went with my roommates to bars in Chicago's Lincoln Park. I feel so happy knowing getting wasted from $3 shots on a Wednesday is behind me. I now truly have nothing better to do at night than complete my homework.

Another benefit is that you sometimes get special treatment. The special treatment that pregnant women get is awesome. It is my favorite part and sometimes makes me wish I could be pregnant forever. People feel obligated to wait on me hand and foot. If I drop something, people rush to pick it up. It is completely not necessary but I get to feel like a princess for a day (or 280 days). Even though I was singled out for being the only pregnant woman, I was always treated especially nicely by students and professors.

Regardless of my friends and family expecting me to drop out, I am doing phenomenal in grad school. I have received A's in every class and have loved all of my classes. Being a pregnant student can be tough, but it is totally doable. If you find yourself to be a pregnant student, don't feel discouraged. It is not ruining your college experience but allowing you to do college differently.

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