Why You Should Go To The Women's March In DC

I'm Going To The Women's March In DC Because It Isn't The 20th Century Anymore

I'm not just marching for myself, I'm also marching for my friends, for my family, and for all the women and young girls around the globe

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This year is the third annual Women's March but it will also be the first time I'm going to DC for the march.

The first women's march was in 2017 after President Donald Trump's inauguration. Unfortunately, I didn't go to that one and I'm still mad at myself for not going. The first anything is always so electrifying, and I can't even begin to picture how it must've felt, especially the day after such a historically significant and controversial event. I think one of the reasons why I didn't go was because I was scared of expressing my political opinions in such a public and open way. The political tensions were already at an all-time high, not just inside the government but also inside my high school and my social circles. Both sides of the political spectrum were nervous about discussing topical issues because if we did, more often than not, the disagreements would turn into a battle royale and screaming matches.

But by the time the second women's march came around in 2018, I was ready and my perception of self-changed. I realized that fighting for what I believe was more important than the fear of social retribution. So, with a protest sign in one hand, firm beliefs in my mind, and a close friend by my side, I took on the NYC women's march with pride. It had to be one of the most inspiring things I've ever done. It was electrifying to be surrounded by so many people who all believed in the same end game.

This time around, I'm going to do the women's march a little bit differently. Instead of going to NYC, I'm going to DC. It was so empowering going to the march in NYC, so I can't even begin to imagine how it will feel to be in DC.

In the past, I have been asked "what's the point of marching" and "why are you marching, it doesn't do/change anything." Well, to address those questions, I'm not just marching for myself, I'm also marching for my friends, for my family, and for all the women and young girls around the globe. Despite being in the 21st century, women still aren't treated as equals in all aspects of life and I feel like it's time that changed.

This year, the march is focused on ending violence, reproductive rights, LGBTQIA rights, worker's rights, civil rights, disability rights, immigrant rights, and environmental justice. So not only am I marching for those, but also for a better future for me and the women in the present and future.

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I Might Have Aborted My Fetus When I Was 18, But Looking Back, I Saved A Child’s Life

It may have been one of the hardest decisions of my life, but I wouldn't be where I am today if I hadn't had done it.

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Due to recent political strife happening in the world today, I have decided to write on a very touchy, difficult subject for me that only a handful of people truly know.

When I was 18 years old, I had an abortion.

I was fresh out of high school, and deferring college for a year or two — I wanted to get all of my immature fun out so I was prepared to focus and work in the future. I was going through my hardcore party stage, and I had a boyfriend at the time that truly was a work of art (I mean truly).

Needless to say, I was extremely misinformed on sex education, and I never really thought it could happen to me. I actually thought I was invincible to getting pregnant, and it never really registered to me that if I had unprotected sex, I could actually get pregnant (I was 18, I never said I was smart).

I remember being at my desk job and for weeks, I just felt so nauseous and overly tired. I was late for my period, but it never really registered to me something could be wrong besides just getting the flu — it was November, which is the peak of flu season.

The first person I told was my best friend, and she came with me to get three pregnancy tests at Target. The first one came negative, however, the second two came positive.

I truly believe this was when my anxiety disorder started because I haven't been the same ever since.

Growing up in a conservative, Catholic Italian household, teen pregnancy and especially abortion is 150% frowned upon. So when I went to Planned Parenthood and got the actual lab test done that came out positive, I was heartbroken.

I felt like I was stuck between two roads: Follow how I was raised and have the child, or terminate it and ultimately save myself AND the child from a hard future.

My boyfriend at the time and I were beyond not ready. That same week, I found out he had cheated on me with his ex and finances weren't looking so great, and I was starting to go through the hardest depression of my life. Because of our relationship, I had lost so many friends and family, that I was left to decide the fate of both myself and this fetus. I could barely take care of myself — I was drinking, overcoming drug addictions, slightly suicidal and living with a man who didn't love me.

As selfish as you may think this was, I terminated the fetus and had the abortion.

I knew that if I had the child, I would be continuing the cycle in which my family has created. My goal since I was young was to break the cycle and breakaway from the toxicity in how generations of children in my family were raised. If I had this child, I can assure you my life would be far from how it is now.

If I had carried to term, I would have had a six-year old, and God knows where I would've been.

Now, I am fulfilling my future by getting a BA in Politics, Philosophy and Economics, having several student leadership roles, and looking into law schools for the future.

Although it still haunts me, and the thought of having another abortion truly upsets me, it was the best thing to ever happen to me. I get asked constantly "Do you think it's just to kill a valuable future of a child?" and my response to that is this:

It's in the hands of the woman. She is giving away her valuable future to an unwanted pregnancy, which then resentment could cause horror to both the child and the woman.

As horrible as it was for me in my personal experience, I would not be where I am today: a strong woman, who had overcome addiction, her partying stage, and ultimately got her life in order. If I would have had the child, I can assure you that I would have followed the footsteps of my own childhood, and the child would not have had an easy life.

Because of this, I saved both my life and the child's life.

And if you don't agree or you dislike this decision, tough stuff because this is my body, my decision, my choice — no one else.

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