R Kelly's abuse timeline

A Timeline Of R. Kelly And His Abuse

"They tryna lock me up like Bill" – R. Kelly


Like many cases involving celebrity sexual misconduct, Kelly's abuse was nothing new.

Allegations of sexual misconduct have plagued Kelly for nearly two decades. Kelly's ex-wife, Andrea, was married to Kelly for thirteen years and the two share three children together. It was only after years of abuse at the hands of her husband and contemplating taking her own life that Andrea left Kelly and began speaking out against him. Since Andrea's coming forward with details of physical and sexual abuse, many other victims have shared their stories involving Kelly.

Kelly's trouble began at age 27 when he illegally married a woman named Aaliyah Haughton, who was fifteen at the time.

More chaos followed in 2002 when a sex tape involving Kelly and underage women surfaced.

Following his sex tape in 2002, his celebrity network only grew. Artists including Jay-Z, Lady Gaga, Celine Dion, Snoop Dog, 2 Chainz, Ludacris, Migos, and Juicy J have worked and collaborated with Kelly, popularizing his name across multiple music genres.

More recently in 2008, Kelly was involved in a child pornography case, which became a pop culture and media uproar.

Although Kelly has been a subject of multiple lawsuits involving sexual misconduct, the singer has never been convicted.

HERE is the problem. You have a powerful talent in the African American community who is loved and known by many and at the same time, you have a victim(s) who little to nobody knows about.

Well, NOW PEOPLE KNOW. The new Lifetime documentary series follows Kelly's misconduct completely. Included are victims coming forward with stories dating back to the 90s reveals how long, detailed, and calculated Kelly's abuse lasted.

Although the documentary has produced success in identifying and addressing sexual and physical abuse against African American women, Kelly's influence seems to be unchallenged.

While the MuteRKelly Movement aims to remove and discredit his music, Spotify reported a 16% increase in R. Kelly music streams following the documentary's airing.

Perhaps Kelly's music rankings are on the rise because some were unfamiliar with Kelly prior to the documentary and wanted to learn more; however, misogyny has long been around, tolerated, and even celebrated in many music genres.

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To The Professors Who Don't Put In Our Grades Until It's Too Late

Since you're not updating your grade book anyway, mine as well just forget about that D I got on last weeks exam


Dear College Professors,

As finals are right around the corner, we are all wondering what we need to make in order to ace your class... or not fail your class. But how are we supposed to take the time to calculate this, when all we have is a single letter midterm grade? You may not realize but grades are the central focus of the school, and better yet, college. We strive to get an A and we study endless hours so we can achieve that goal. And for you to not be able to do us the simple favor of putting in that grade, is absurd.

Let's just say, Billy, with the purple hair who sits in the back corner, slacked the entire year and is assuming he has no better than a C in the class. We have a month left of school and he wanted to try to bring up his grade in creative writing, maybe not to an A, but he has come to the realization that he cannot fail the course because his parents cannot afford for him to retake the class. He recently was in the library writing his paper, and even missed the new episode of Game of Thrones episode, to make sure that his paper was golden.

Now it's been two weeks since he handed in that paper. Still no grade. The countdown is on, 10 days left of class and barely enough assignments to pull that grade up. He has 9 work shifts, 5 finals, 2 study guides, and 1 teacher that inputs all his grades. Poor Billy. With not a clue of what any of his grades are, and barely any time to go personally ask every professor for his grades, he's just going to strive to do the best he can on all of his finals.

Two weeks later...

Turns out Billy had a C+ in creative writing, but a D in logic, the class he assumed he was doing well in because he has only had a few assignments.

So points is, professors if you are not updating our grades regularly or at least a few times before and after midterms, we won't know what we are working with. Also being able to look at our grades directly, motivates us to want to fix a lacking grade or ultimately get the best grade possible. We become more determined when we see the number directly rather than when we're just guessing at it.

In high school, all my teachers always put our grades into the computer immediately, but now when school is more challenging and assignments are time-consuming and lengthy, THIS is when we're unable to see how we are doing. How is that fair?

So moral of the story, while we are studying for 5 exams, writing 2 papers and working a part-time job. Take a little stress off our backs and at least give us an estimate of where we are standing.

Thank you,

A frustrated student trying to raise her GPA

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Why Treating Myself to An iPad was a Capitalist Revolution

Anyone who knows me KNOWS that this was a hard decision for me, cue this rant.


I don't want to make it a huge deal but I got an iPad, cue the applause. No? OK.

I have been putting off this purchase since the start of college because I felt that I needed to do something to "deserve" it, whatever that meant but I decided to YOLO it and here I am, happier than I've ever been.

I realize this makes me sound materialistic but whatever, now I am happier now so yes, maybe I am a little materialistic.

The iPad is perfect for the always-on-the-go lifestyle of a college student. I feel that my backpack has become so much lighter with this device.

With automatic backup to the Cloud, anything stored on the iPad can be saved on Apple's network and can be accessed from any device with an Internet connection; all those invaluable class notes and papers you typed will be saved and accessible online which is something that I really care about because an essay of mine deleted itself and I still have nightmares about that.

With how much I am praising their device, Apple should really hire me already.

Anyways, carrying on with the advantages, an iPad can snap a photo of a document, convert it to a PDF and email it faster than your campus copy machine ever could.

Apart from all these advantages and just how cool it looks, I do understand people who say that they don't think an iPad is worth it. That used to be me for a long time and I agree that it is not the device for everyone.

I'm not writing this article to tell you to buy an iPad. In fact, the opposite really. Sure, my iPad makes me happy and genuinely excited to go to class and take notes (I know right!?) but that's not what the iPad represents. For me, getting this iPad was a personal milestone because, for such a long time, I made myself refuse to buy it because I felt that I needed to become a perfect student - get perfect grades effortlessly and be productive always - to be able to even think about getting it.

It is a state that is experienced by every college student: the mentality is to hustle always 24/7 and if you aren't, you are lazy and not going to get that dream job and salary. We feel that we need to be working for things to deserve them otherwise we are unworthy of things that make us happy and content.

Ina P. said that "Perfection was the only possibility, anything else was failure" in her article "Capitalism Makes Me Sick" and I relate completely. It is the capitalist view that has poisoned all of us to think that we need to be perfect and grateful that we don't have it worse. Asking for something more than we "deserve" is not even a consideration we think about anymore.

I promised myself that I would get an iPad if I got the best grades and genuinely did something that I considered productive which was a high bar that kept on getting higher every time I came close to reaching it. So I worked harder, thinking it all might come true someday if I just tried one more time, did it better, put more into it. I was still entranced in the formula of capitalism: if you work hard enough you will earn happiness.

And then, for the first time in my life, I just let go. I stopped struggling against it. I stopped worrying about what it would mean with "treating myself." No more sacrificing to be part of the system, or to reform the system, or even to fight it.

We set aside our own selves and our dreams in a futile attempt to become people of value. We don't realize that we already are from the moment we're born.

We kill ourselves to achieve what is unachievable and blame ourselves and each other for failing.

So yes, to me, getting this iPad is not just about the advantages that it gives (which are numerous) but the fact that when I made this decision, it is in some small way trying to break the systematic process of capitalism.

Or maybe I just really wanted an iPad.

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