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I Decided To Try Therapy And I'm So Glad That I Did

You do not have to be "crazy" to get help.


Therapy. There is such a stigma surrounding the term. People like to assume that if you seek out therapy you are a "crazy" person. The thing is, you don't have to be crazy to go to therapy. Everyone goes through tough times and it is nice to know that there are people in this world who have dedicated their career to helping you through those problems you face.

The university I go to has a counseling and psychological services (CAPS) program that allows students to meet with a counselor multiple times throughout the school year, as well as provide 24/7 assistance to students in crisis. While I have known about these services since my freshman year, I never felt that going to therapy was for me. I always thought therapy was for the severely mentally ill individuals and didn't think I would benefit from it. But after multiple unfortunate events came into my life all around the same time, I started to feel that maybe counseling was something I should try. It only took me four years to go, but I am thankful that I finally decided to.

For my first therapy session, I met with my assigned counselor and it was basically an intake appointment with her getting to know more about me, my family, my struggles, and anything else that made a significant impact in my life, negatively or positively. I told her everything from not having a place to live for part of my freshman year, being in a traumatic car accident, my financial struggles, my dad's cancer diagnosis, losing my best friend, trying to figure out my education and career path, my issues sleeping, my anxiety, and other events and challenges I have been facing.

While I have always thought my problems were never significant enough to seek out therapy, my counselor made sure I understood that no matter what my struggles are compared to the next person, what I am going through and what I am feeling is valid, and there is no such thing as problems not being significant enough to talk about in therapy.

I have been going to therapy for about two months now. I look forward to my weekly appointments with my counselor. I get to reflect on things that have happened to me in the past as well as the present, while my counselor helps me through them. She has given me many tools to help manage my anxiety and worry and has even helped me get better sleep at night. Sitting down with her and talking about the good and bad events that have happened to me has really helped. Every time I go to therapy I end up crying, but I also end up leaving there feeling like a giant weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

Something else that I have found very beneficial to therapy is having someone to talk to that doesn't know you outside of the room. It has been nice to be able to spill anything and everything that is on my mind without any judgment. It gives me a safe space to fully express my feelings and concerns.

I feel that more people should seek out therapy, especially when going through difficult times in your life. You do not have to be "crazy" to get help. Your mental health is just as valuable, if not more valuable, than your physical health, so you need to make sure you take care of yourself.

Therapy has given me an unbiased, nonjudgmental person to talk to and has also provided me with mechanisms and strategies to help cope with the things going on in my life. I am truly thankful for my counselor and all that she has been doing to improve my mental health, which has ultimately improved my overall well-being. And I am glad I made the decision to get the help I originally didn't think I needed.

Don't be ashamed to go to therapy. We all go through difficult times and there is absolutely nothing wrong with seeking help to get through such times. Therapy is one of the best forms of self-care you can do for yourself, so don't be hesitant to ask for help.

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Everything You Will Miss If You Commit Suicide

The world needs you.

You won't see the sunrise or have your favorite breakfast in the morning.

Instead, your family will mourn the sunrise because it means another day without you.

You will never stay up late talking to your friends or have a bonfire on a summer night.

You won't laugh until you cry again, or dance around and be silly.

You won't go on another adventure. You won't drive around under the moonlight and stars.

They'll miss you. They'll cry.

You won't fight with your siblings only to make up minutes later and laugh about it.

You won't get to interrogate your sister's fiancé when the time comes.

You won't be there to wipe away your mother's tears when she finds out that you're gone.

You won't be able to hug the ones that love you while they're waiting to wake up from the nightmare that had become their reality.

You won't be at your grandparents funeral, speaking about the good things they did in their life.

Instead, they will be at yours.

You won't find your purpose in life, the love of your life, get married or raise a family.

You won't celebrate another Christmas, Easter or birthday.

You won't turn another year older.

You will never see the places you've always dreamed of seeing.

You will not allow yourself the opportunity to get help.

This will be the last sunset you see.

You'll never see the sky change from a bright blue to purples, pinks, oranges, and yellows meshing together over the landscape again.

If the light has left your eyes and all you see is the darkness, know that it can get better. Let yourself get better.

This is what you will miss if you leave the world today.

This is who will care about you when you are gone.

You can change lives. But I hope it's not at the expense of yours.

We care. People care.

Don't let today be the end.

You don't have to live forever sad. You can be happy. It's not wrong to ask for help.

Thank you for staying. Thank you for fighting.

Suicide is a real problem that no one wants to talk about. I'm sure you're no different. But we need to talk about it. There is no difference between being suicidal and committing suicide. If someone tells you they want to kill themselves, do not think they won't do it. Do not just tell them, “Oh you'll be fine." Because when they aren't, you will wonder what you could have done to help. Sit with them however long you need to and tell them it will get better. Talk to them about their problems and tell them there is help. Be the help. Get them assistance. Remind them of all the things they will miss in life.

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline — 1-800-273-8255

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How To Avoid Getting Sick Your  Freshman Year

It's going to take a little more than an apple a day.


College is the prime time and place to catch a cold... or worse. Although, somehow I managed to crack the code to health and not get sick my whole first year of college. This is surprising considering I was living in the close (and very unsanitary) quarters of a dorm room.

1. Keep your diet somewhat healthy

I know how hard it is to eat healthy in college, especially on a low budget. But with the dining hall foods, you can at least include some vegetables and fruits into your everyday consumption. The vitamins in these foods will help keep your immune system up and it will be worth the effort.

2. Try to exercise a few times per week

Even if you're just getting out of the dorm for a thirty minute walk, it will benefit your body. If you decide to up your routine from that, even better! The more endorphins, the more you will feel better inside and out.

3. Cut back on the drinking if you feel a cold coming on

Surprisingly, many college students don't seem to know that alcohol lowers your immune system. Of course, for some people theres no way of avoiding drinking. But if you can at least give your body rest days, it will be extremely beneficial.

4. Invest in a dehumidifier for your dorm room

I believe this was a very big player in helping me not get sick. The dehumidifier helps reduce dust and other particles in the air. This will help not agitate your allergies and you will feel more clear headed.

5. Try not to share personal products

Sharing things like towels, makeup, unwashed cups, etc. can all be causes of a sickness being passed around you and your friends. Of course sharing is caring, just make sure it's sanitary.

6. Be conscientious of who you kiss!

Make sure that your girlfriend, boyfriend, or "its complicated" person is not sick before you're getting cozy with them.

7. Drink lots of green tea!

Personally, I credit green tea and its anti-oxidants for keeping the flu away and even getting rid of bugs that might be forming in your system. So if you feel like you might be developing a cold, chug that tea!

I know how annoying these tips may be. But I promise, if you implement at least a few it could reduce your chances of feeling horrible during midterms in the winter, and sneezing all over your finals in the fall.

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