Everything You Should Remember Going Into 2019
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

Everything You Should Remember Going Into 2019

The best way to make this year really count...

238
https://www.pexels.com/photo/sparkler-new-year-s-eve-sylvester-sparks-38196/
Pexels

At the beginning of 2018, I told myself that I wanted to make the most out of the year (like I do every time). However, what I failed to do was realize what it is exactly that would have allowed me to grow. Without that, 2018 quickly became just like every other year. This year, I want that all to change—and here's what you and I need to remember in order for that to happen:

1. Have a positive attitude.

Without it, your mission will surely be a failure. You can't have sunshine without a little rain, but it's how you look at the rain that makes the sunshine even better.

2. Don't doubt yourself.

"Believe in yourself," they say. Yes, it's a cliché, but why do you think that is? Because more often than not, it helps us. Doubting yourself will set limits on the potentially endless possibilities in store for you.

3. Choose a few things you want to try before the new year and make them happen.

Make a list of some things you want to do or try in 2019. It doesn't need to be extravagant or filled with expensive adventures, it could just be trying sushi for the first time or giving up soda. Whatever they are, try to accomplish them throughout the year. In the end, you'll have your personal new-found sense of adventure without the world traveling.

4. You don't need to impress everyone.

Stop trying so hard to impress the people around you. You're your own person with your own likes, goals, dreams, and fears. Don't let anyone negatively influence that. Have confidence in who you are.

5. Say what you need or want to say.

Life truly is short. Don't let the fear of judgment stop you from sharing your opinion, your passions, your feelings, or your desires. If it's important enough to you, I'm sure others will want to listen... and if they don't, let your voice ring true to you anyway.

6. What is meant to be will be.

That job you applied for, the boy you've texted and Snapchatted who hasn't responded, the final paper that you got a bad grade on, and everything in between may not be perfect-- but I assure you, it's not the end of the world. What is meant to be in your life, will be. If you put dedication and love into all you do, things will work out.

7. Exercise your compassion and empathy.

Have a struggling friend? Thinking about volunteering somewhere local or abroad? Want to help those in need in your community? Do something about it this year. Jump on the one thing that makes your heart ache for others and try your best to positively impact it. It will make your heart and soul feel warm.

8. Don't fear spontaneity. 

Go on the spontaneous road trip somewhere this summer or book a flight last minute if you're so fortunate to have those opportunities. It may sound hectic and stressful at the moment, but you'll be glad you said "yes" in the end. Sometimes, saying "yes" more can lead to special memories.

9. Tell your family and friends that you love them.

With all the hate and negativity in the world today, it's important to remind the people close to you how you feel toward them. It will make them smile.

10. Look out for your own best interest sometimes.

Caring for others is so very important, but don't lose yourself in the process this year. Remember that your dreams should be chased.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
beer on the beach

Summer is hot and humid, and it's almost like summer was made specifically to drink the refreshing, cold, crisp wonderful, delicious, nutritious nectar of the gods. Which is none other than beer; wonderful cold beer. With summer playing peek-a-boo around the corner while we finish up this semester, it's time to discuss the only important part of summer. And if you haven't already guessed, it's beer. There are few things I take more seriously than my beer, in order are: sports... and beer. Here are my favorite summer brews:

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

7 Reasons SoCal Rocks!

75 degrees and sunny, plus, no humidity. I mean do I really need to say more?

1111
woman in black and white long sleeve shirt carrying girl in red jacket in Venice beach
Photo by Jeff Hopper on Unsplash

SoCal summers are the best summers by far, and honestly, no argument is needed. But, if you aren't sure why SoCal summers are the best, here are 7 reasons why!

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

25 Lyrics for Selfie Captions

Because let's be honest, we all use lyrics.

53569
woman takes a selfie for social media
Pixabay

Sometimes you can't think of the perfect caption for your Instagram post. I love using lyrics as my captions because there's so many great lines in songs that just seem to fit in the moment. Here are some lyrics that could work for your selfie or pictures of you with your friends!

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

Bruce Springsteen's Top 7 Lyrics

Everything Bruce says in his classic rock songs.

20036
bruce springsteen album cover born in the usa

Anyone who was born and raised in New Jersey (or anywhere really) knows of Bruce Springsteen, whether or not they like him is a whole other situation. I hope that his hundreds of classic rock songs and famous high energy performances, even in his sixties he can put on better concerts than people half his age, are at least recognizable to people of all ages. Love him or hate him (I identify with the former) you have to admit that some of his songs and interviews have inspirational quotes and lyrics.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

New England Summers Are The BEST Summers

Why you should spend your next summer in New England.

3807
Marconi Beach

Three years ago, I chose to attend college in Philadelphia, approximately 360 miles away from my small town in New Hampshire. I have learned many valuable lessons away from home, and have thoroughly enjoyed my time spent in Pennsylvania. One thing that my experience has taught me, however, is that it is absolutely impossible to beat a New England summer.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments