While balancing school, work, internships, Greek life, and a social life, it's easy to feel like the world is caving in. Being my best self means that I feel like I am thriving in all elements in my life, while sometimes it includes saying no to things I know I won't have time for. Here are some tips that make life a little easier, and more fun while still getting your tasks completed.
1. Prioritize
If I start my day off lazy, it is more than likely that the rest of my day is going to be like that also, which results in half-ass work and laziness in what you do. Everything that you do should be done at the best of your ability, this way you can sleep better at night.
Nothing is better than going to sleep knowing you did everything possible to make your day run smoothly, and successfully. Make a to-do list every day, then number what is urgent to what can be pushed off to the next day. Getting your priorities together will make it easier to say yes to plans that may come up later in the day.
2. Opportunities
School is so important, but the opportunities that you are offered during college may not come again. We are young enough to take advantage of how many things we can fit in a day. Staying busy, fit, and healthy is good for the soul.
3. Work
It is a reality that most students do not have the luxury to not have some sort of income while taking classes. As it is a great feeling to pay for things without your family's help, it can feel overwhelming while doing everything else. Get a job that you enjoy, whether it be working at a bar, an office, or an animal shelter. It is hard to dread what you do when you spend half the day in classes on top of that. Listen to some music, get out of bed, go out, and make it work.
4. Breathe
Working out can be a great way to relieve stress, and good to ensure you don't gain that Freshman 15. Breathe through everything that you have to do, and know that it isn't as big of a deal as you think. Do not freak out. Talk to your family, a friend, or anyone and let it out. Holding it in and keeping to yourself makes it so much worse. Those who don't speak out suffer in silence, so talk about your feelings. Especially when you don't have your family around you to constantly keep in check.
5. Laugh
Life is short, be sure to laugh. Surround yourself with people that empower you, and understand you. College is the best place to meet those people. Take advantage of how many different people you meet, and remember to have fun. Go out, take some shots, be social, and make it to your 8 am class. You can do it all.
My challenge for you would be to set some time for yourself each week and choose a goal to work toward. You'll be surprised how much time you waste when you lay it out, and you can find time for things you think you can't fit in, then you plan!
