5 Lessons You Learn At College, But NOT In A Classroom

5 Lessons That DON'T Get A Letter Grade But Every College Student Learns Before They Get Their Diploma

Although everyone has different experiences in college, there are some lessons that are universal.


When you enter college, you enter a whole new world. You meet new people, make new daily schedules, and jump out of your norm. Although everyone has different experiences in college, there are some lessons that are universal.

1. You don't always need to join your friends

Being with friends is an amazing feeling. You get to make so many memories with them. But, you don't always have to go along with the plans that the group is making. It is completely OK to say no and do your own thing. Or if you want to go chill with someone that is not part of your close clique, that is OK too. Be your own person and make your own decision.

2. Be open to change

College is a whole new lifestyle and you are going to come across of so many different things that may force you to change yourself or your routine. Just because something does not fit in your planned schedule or personality, do not push it away. Try it out first. You never know what will happen and what you will discover about yourself.

3. Time management is key

You have a million things going on at once. College is all about experiencing life and involves keeping up your GPA, making new friends, attending different events, and so much more. In order for all those things to happen and for your life to be put together, you have to learn to manage your time. If you need to, buy a cute planner or use Google Calendar to plan out your days.

4. Spend some time alone

As mentioned before, you will have a million things going on at once. Life can get very hectic as you try to find that balance between school and social life. But, remember, you need to take time off and spend some alone. Do something that helps you distress. You can lay in bed and watch a movie, or journal in your thoughts. Anything that helps you take a break from everything else.

5. Find a balance

There are essentially two main focuses in college: education and social life. Both very important for personal growth and the fulfill the purpose of attending college. However, you need to find somewhat of an equal balance for both things. You have to be careful to not let social events take away crucial time from studying. And, at the same time, you don't want to be hidden in your books at all times.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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