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105 Little Things That Make Me Happy
Appreciating the little things.
18 June 2019
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Complaining can be so easy, but there are so many little things that make us happy each day, we should be more appreciative and thankful that these things exist.
1. Singing in the shower
Giphy2. Finding a parking spot right near the entrance
media.giphy.com3. Painting
Giphy4. Birthdays
Giphy5. Genuinely smiling
Giphy6. Your favorite pen
Giphy7. A not cracked phone screen
Giphy8. Feeling confident in your outfit
Giphy9. Sunshine after rain
Giphy10. Driving with the all the windows down
Giphy11. The first beach day of the season
Giphy12. Boats
Giphy13. Having a good hair day
Giphy14. Finding forgotten money in a jacket pocket
Giphy15. Fresh pizza out of the oven with all your favorite toppings
Giphy16. A sentimental handwritten note from someone
Giphy17. Hoagiefest
Giphy18. Free cone day
Giphy19. Taking your shoes off after a long day
Giphy20. Sunrises
Giphy21. Sunsets
Giphy22. Feeling organized
Giphy23. Babies
Giphy24. Babies laughing
Giphy25. Babies smiling
Giphy26. Children getting really excited about the weirdest things
Giphy27. Night swimming
Giphy28. The smell of freshly cut grass
Giphy29. Getting mail
Giphy30. Getting a package you have been waiting for
Giphy31. Amazon Prime
32. Blanket burritos
Giphy33. Finding a new Netflix series to binge
Giphy34. Dessert
Giphy35. Sleeping in clean bed sheets
Giphy36. Clean laundry
Giphy37. Warm laundry from the dryer
Giphy38. Getting a haircut
Giphy39. Manicures
Giphy40. Pedicures
Giphy41. Getting your eyebrows done
Giphy42. The feeling after working out
Giphy43. Having 100% on your phone
Giphy44. Popping bubble wrap
Giphy45. Eating breakfast in bed
Giphy46. Deep conversations about life
Giphy47. Smell of thunderstorms
Giphy48. Puppies
Giphy49. A good cup of coffee
Giphy50. Waking up not tired
Giphy51. Leggings
Giphy52. Oversized sweatshirts
Giphy53. Making others happy
Giphy54. Sincere compliments
Giphy55. Feeling your pants get looser
Giphy56. Camping
Giphy57. Kayaking
Giphy58. The perfect smore
Giphy59. Double rainbows
Giphy60. Stargazing
Giphy61. Water after working out
Giphy62. Music festivals
Giphy63. Seeing your favorite performer live
Giphy64. Broadway shows
Giphy65. New York City
Giphy66. Waking up earlier than you have to and being able to sleep for more hours
Giphy67. Knowing all the words to a song
Giphy68. Laughing until you can't breathe
Giphy69. Taking a day off work
Giphy70. Crossing things off your To-Do list
Giphy71. Hitting every green light
Giphy72. Disney movies
Giphy73. Disney World
Giphy74. Payday
Giphy75. The window seat
Giphy76. Bonfires
Giphy77. Dancing like no one's watching
Giphy78. Washing your face
Giphy79. Proving someone wrong
Giphy80. Kids drawing a picture for you
Giphy81. Surprises
Giphy82. Christmas time
Giphy83. Family reunions
Giphy84. Getting room service
Giphy85. Feeling comfortable with someone
Giphy86. Witnessing a proposal
Giphy87. Making a new friend
Giphy88. Making the free throw shot into the trash can
Giphy89. Funny license plates
Giphy90. Find something on sale
Giphy91. The new car smell
Giphy92. David's vlogs
Giphy93. Vacation
Giphy94. Spotify's Discover Weekly
95. Fresh flowers
Giphy96. Lighting a candle
Giphy97. A really good hug
Giphy98. Journaling
Giphy99. Your favorite show's new season being released
Giphy100. Weddings
Giphy101. Massages
Giphy102. Warm towels
Giphy103. The elevator being there when you press the button
Giphy104. Reaching a goal
Giphy105. Making someone you love proud
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5 Respectful And Empowering Ways To Handle Rejection
Not everyone will like you, but not everyone has to.
You work hard, you do the right thing, and the inevitable happens. Someone comes along and begins to give you a backhanded compliment, or if you have the misfortune, a backhanded comment. You are left with a bad taste in your mouth and your day starts to turn sour. When people belittle you and your efforts, here are five respectful and empowering ways to sweeten those moments of rejection.
1. Never give someone a reason to not like you.
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People will say what they want and think what they want, no matter the subject or person of choice. It will not matter who you are or what you do, someone or another manages to pay you their two cents. You have to remember, you did not give them reasons to justify their words or actions towards you. These people who exhibit unwarranted thoughts about you are just another drop in the ocean. They do not define your good intentions or self-worth. They are not for you and you need not place any investigation or worry into the mystery of why they do not like you. You do not have to reason with them any further. Simply look forward to the people who care to be curious and open-minded about you.
2. Kill them with kindness.
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The dead push up daisies, but you plant the seed. Some people will smile proudly knowing they have said something cruel or disheartening to get a rise out of you but look at this as an opportunity. Every moment is a chance for you to choose how you react. Ten percent of life is what happens to you, it is out of your control. Ninety percent of life is what you do about it. Use your words to encourage, not discourage, civil discourse. Say what matters and say it with an honest purpose. State your case and let them respond how they will; you cannot control others, but you can control yourself. Be a good example others have yet to show themselves.
3. Turn the "No's" into a "Yes."
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The poet Sylvia Plath had this to say about rejection: "I love my rejection slips. They show me I try." She was talking about the process of writing literary submissions for publication, but her attitude still stands. This is the mindset it takes to find the success you want out of life. Despite all the people that deny you and your work, there are people that see potential and promise in you. It does not matter how many people say "No" to you. What does matter is the number of times you can get back to work and look forward to that one "Yes." You are working for the "Yes's" in your life. Forget the dream-killers and eye-rollers, they lack the hope and drive you have in what you do. They do not do what you do and do not do it like you do. For every "No" there is a "Yes."
4. Let your work speak for you.
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Sometimes no matter how endearing your elevator pitch sounds or how carefully crafted your resume is, people still find fault where there might not even be any. Your accomplishments are your own and that is something to take pride in. Of course, the right amount of pride separates you from the rest and for the better. Pride and confidence must not become virtues or vices that exceed who you are. The work you put out is an extension of who you are and no one can take that away from you. Work speaks for itself and yourself best, so focus on your goals and let your results stand in for your words people did not value. Your best is rarely seen at the moment of inspiration, usually after the final stroke of the brush has wet the canvas. It is your goal to show that stalwart work ethic in good times and in bad.
5. Your process will protect you.
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Keep working. Rule out the distractions and the doubts, the fears, and the flippant fools. Know that your process will save you in trying times. Work against all odds. At some point, things turn even and add up, but you have to be dedicated and diligent. Your sights are seen only through your eyes and your need is to show others what you see. Until then, your skill, your talent, will be honed with consistency. Show up to your work even when you have not been hit with inspiration. The Kodak moment will present itself through your process. Due diligence is the price of success. Eyes on the prize and nose to the grindstone. No one knows your work better than you.
Be the trampoline that bends the will of gravity-like rejection long enough until you can fly.