1. It's Not Too Late To Get Involved
I made the mistake of not getting involved during my freshman year. I was constantly bored while my roommates had sorority events and other organization-sponsored activities to go to all the time.
I isolated myself and it was not good for my mental health. This year I got involved with a campus ministry, a sorority, and other organizations connected to my major.
2. Joining A Sorority Doesn't Guarantee Friends
When I decided to go through sorority recruitment, I expected that I would find my best friends in my sorority right away. This wasn't the case.
The whole first semester I didn't really connect with anyone or make good friends. I know a lot of girls dropped after the first semester but I powered through and I'm glad I did. I made a great group of friends second semester thankfully.
3. Time Management Is Everything
Since I became involved in some organizations I had a lot more things to juggle this year. I have always been good with time management but definitely built upon my skills this year.
I can genuinely say that I did not procrastinate very much at all and I spaced out my homework and other obligations in a way that was manageable.
4. Seasonal Affective Disorder SUCKS
This past winter was the worst winter I've had with seasonal affective disorder in a long time. I was feeling depressed all of the time and struggled to stay awake in classes. I probably spent more time sleeping than awake this winter. I hope that next winter isn't as bad.
5. Cooking Doesn't Have To Be Hard
This year was my first time living in my own apartment and having my own kitchen. I tried learning how to cook some simple meals and I figured out that it's not so hard after all. I made a lot of pasta and meat as well as wraps and roasted vegetables. One thing I found extremely useful was my roommate's air fryer. Those things are awesome. Seriously.
6. Faith Communities Are The Best
I finally found The Vine this year at school and couldn't be happier. This campus ministry has provided me with a small group of amazing women who support each other and rely on God. They helped me realize that I am wanted and worthy of true friends.
7. English Is The Right Major For Me
I declared my major as English Literature second semester of freshman year, unsure of whether I would stick with it. I know now that English is definitely the right major for me. I enjoyed all of my English classes and have learned a lot more about the career field. I even have a summer internship at a literary magazine!
8. This Man Means Everything To Me
This spring, after over four years of long-distance dating, this handsome man proposed to me. I was ecstatic to get engaged to the man of my dreams. He has always treated me like a princess but he has grown into a true man this past year. He is my rock, my best friend, and my forever love. He means the world to me.
So, as you can see, I learned a lot this year. I hope you did as well.
