​5 Ways To Avoid Homesickness While In College And Live Your Best Life Your Freshman Year

​5 Ways To Avoid Homesickness While In College And Live Your Best Life Your Freshman Year

Got a bad case of homesickness? I think I might have the prescription.


Coming to college, I was so excited to get away from home, experience new things, and finally get my life started. I was warned about coming down with a case of homesickness, but I refused to believe I would let myself get to that point.

Well, as Thanksgiving time approaches, and fall officially starts to set in...I can officially say I miss home. Being 3 hours away from everything you're used to isn't easy! It was hard to see my peers who live in-state frequently visit home whenever they pleased. Many college students however, are not blessed with that luxury. My friends and family are constantly on my mind, and I wish I could just teleport back home.

Being homesick is a totally valid feeling, so don't feel bad if you feel this way too! There are many ways to cope with homesickness, so don't be afraid to try any of these approaches to get your mind off things.

1. Understand that homesickness is normal!


No, homesickness is not an actual disease! There is nothing wrong with you, and it is completely normal! Many people, whether they admit it or not, feel homesick at one point during their time at college. Once you realize that homesickness is a completely regular feeling, then you can work on getting over it.

2. Turn your campus into a home away from home.

Make friends! Get involved! I know saying it is different from actually doing it, but it never hurts to try. Especially for freshman, it can be rough to get into a routine that feels comfortable. It's difficult adjusting to all new surroundings with new people. My advice is to find people who have the same interests as you, and then join clubs/organizations that match up with your passions. In no time, the uneasiness will fade and campus will start to feel like home!

3. Stay connected with those back home.

Facetime was created for a reason! Whenever you are craving a little bit of home, I suggest picking up the phone and video chatting someone close to your heart. Whether it be your mom, dad, grandpa, cousin, boyfriend, or anyone, I promise seeing their face on a screen will instantly bring a smile to your face.

4. Distractions!!

Sometimes we just need something to take our mind off things. Distractions can help divert your mind from constantly thinking about distance. Some of my favorite distractions include reading, shopping, having a spa day, and going out with friends. Trust me, sitting in bed with your favorite pajamas on, with a cup of tea in one hand and a hardcover book in the other is one of the greatest feelings in the world. Or, my other favorite, getting dressed up with the squad and taking endless pictures before going out!

5. Stay positive!


It will get better! Homesickness is usually just temporary, don't let it get the best of you! Don't forget you are at school for a reason, and are bound to do great things! Your college career has amazing things in store, don't let homesickness consume you.

With all of these things in mind, the chances of you being homesick should be little to none. Of course, we all have our days, which is completely fine. Just remember some of these tips and it might go a long way.

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The Thank You My Dad Deserves

While our moms are always the heroes, our dads deserve some credit, too.

Dear Dad,

You’ve gone a really long time without being thanked. I'm not talking about thanks for things like opening the Gatorade bottle I couldn't or checking my tires when my car’s maintenance light is flashing, but rather the thanks I owe you for shaping me into the person I am today.

Thank you for teaching me what I deserve and for not letting me settle for anything less.

While the whole world was telling me I wasn’t good enough, you were there to tell me I was. Whether this was with boys, a friend, or anything else, you always built my confidence to a place I couldn’t build it to on my own. You showed me what my great qualities were and helped me feel unique. But most of all, you never let me settle for anything less than what I deserved, even when I wanted to. Without you, I wouldn’t be nearly as ambitious, outgoing or strong.

Thank you for giving me someone to make proud.

It’s hard to work hard when it’s just for myself, but so easy when it’s for you. All through school, nothing made me happier than getting a good grade back because I knew I got to come home and tell you. With everything I do, you give me a purpose.

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Thank you for showing me what selflessness looks like.

You are the prime example of what putting your family first looks like. If me wanting something means that you can’t get what you want, you’ll always sacrifice. From wearing the same t-shirts you’ve had since I was in elementary school so I could buy the new clothes I wanted, to not going out with your friends so you could come to my shows, you never made a decision without your family at the forefront of your mind. If there is one quality you have that I look up to you for the most, it’s your ability to completely put your needs aside and focus entirely on the wants of others.

Thank you for being the voice in the back of my head that shows me wrong from right.

Even though many of your dad-isms like “always wear a seatbelt” easily get old, whenever I’m in a situation and can’t decide if what I’m doing is right or wrong, I always can hear you in the back of my head pointing me in the right direction. While I may not boost your ego often enough by telling you you’re always right, you are.

Thank you for being real with me when nobody else will.

Being your child hasn’t always been full of happiness and encouragement, but that’s what makes you such an integral part of my life. Rather than sugarcoating things and always telling me I was the perfect child, you called me out when I was wrong. But what separates you from other dads is that instead of just knocking me down, you helped me improve. You helped me figure out my faults and stood by me every step of the way as I worked to fix them.

Most of all, thank you for showing me what a great man looks like.

I know that marriage may seem very far down the road, but I just want you to know that whoever the guy I marry is, I know he’ll be right because I have an amazing guy to compare him to. I know you’re not perfect (nobody is), but you’ve raised me in a such a way that I couldn’t imagine my kids being raised any differently. Finding a guy with your heart, drive, and generosity will be tough, but I know it will be worth it.

Dad, you’re more than just my parent, but my best friend. You’re there for me like nobody else is and I couldn’t imagine being where I am now without you.

Love you forever,

Your little girl

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Hey ECU, We Really Need Some More Parking, But Sure, Go Ahead And Spend The Money On ANOTHER Student Center

Seriously, who decides what our tuition should be spent on?


I get the "I'm here" text, and I bound down the stairs and plop myself into my friend's car. "Where can I park?" Craning my neck to search for an empty spot, I reply, "Wherever you see an open spot. This is war." We spend the first 15 minutes of our visit together driving around, waiting for those blessed white lights to signal someone leaving.

Later on that night, my friend mentions they're hungry. I hype them up to go to the new student center, given all the options. "Should we drive to it?"

I laugh, "And give up our spot?" We pull up the bus schedule and wait for the next one.

While munching on Canes' chicken, we sit and talk. "This place is HUGE." I shrug, and then they ask, "You don't like it?" I sigh and proceed to tell them what I'm about to tell you.

I love the student center. It's cool. A nice place to do homework, and it does give more options for food. But I remind my friend about our parking ordeal. "We need more parking but… Did they spend our money to build this instead? We didn't NEED this."

This may not seem like a big deal, but this isn't the only problem students have on campus.

We are shocked when we have hot showers. We are paying literal thousands to be here, and yet hot showers is a treat. Isn't that kind of a basic expectation?

There are about 400 students living in my residence hall, but we only have about 16 clothes washers and dryers. People won't move their stuff in a timely manner, so we have to wait (or some people just take your clothes out).

My friend is having to go on the "Elimination Diet", due to the fact that she constantly breaks out into heat rashes all the time, which may actually be allergic reactions to some food she's eating. But how can she even maintain this when the dining halls really offer no healthy food options?

Buses are continuously overcrowded. But we will see buses continuing routes, with the words "NOT IN SERVICE". People stand around and wait for the next one.

When walking to the library from my dorm (because the bus is overcrowded), I can spot an unfinished, unnecessary sidewalk that ends in the middle of… nowhere. They took the time and resources to build a sidewalk with no purpose.

I'm not trying to complain. I'm trying to bring attention. We have a new student center, but we can't have hot showers?

I feel like things need to be re-prioritized.

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