Celebrate Palentine's Day This Year

Celebrate Palentine's Day This Year

We should celebrate our friends.

Love can come in many forms. When most people think of love, the first thing that comes to mind is romantic love. Which makes sense; the media feeds us narratives of romance constantly. Starting from when we were children, too young to fully understand what love is. We even have a holiday to celebrate romance. Flowers, chocolate, and lingerie move to the forefront of stores. But I think we put too much emphasis on romantic relationships, especially this time of year. So whether you're baeless or not, this Valentine's Day, make sure to appreciate your friends.

I know you're thinking, "Isn't that what Galentine's Day is for?" Technically yes, but it's only for women celebrating women. Which I'm all here for, but Palentine's Day is more inclusive to other identities. You can appreciate all your friends regardless of their gender identity or their lack of one. This is why Palentine's Day is so important.

You need a holiday like this because friendships are one of the most important relationships you build. Good friends are really like your second family. They're the family you get to handpick. They're always there for you no matter what you're going through. That's how I know I have a good group of friends. They laugh at all my jokes, even when they're more stupid than funny. They listen to me, even when what I'm saying doesn't make sense. And they appreciate me all the time. And most of the time, I feel like I'm doing the bare minimum.

And if you feel even a smidge of what I feel for my friends, I beg you to tell them. Tell them how much you care and exactly why you appreciate them so much. If you can, throw a small Palentine’s Day celebration for them. Include candy, snacks, and their favorite activities.

Friendships are such a pure form of love which needs more recognition. I hope you all can spread your love this season to all the forms of love you experience.

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What more do frat boys love than alcohol, partying, and just acting stupid? Here are some gifts that help fulfill all of those needs for the frat boy in your life!

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2. Phone juul holder 

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3. Animal house poster 

This Animal House poster is a classic staple for any frat boy. This poster will compliment any frat house decor or lack thereof.

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4. The American Fraternity book

Does the frat boy in your life need a good read for Thanksgiving or winter break? Look no farther, this will certainly keep his attention and give him a history lesson on American fraternity heritage and tradition.

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5. Beer pong socks 

These snazzy socks featuring beer pong will be loved by any frat boy. As for the way to any frat boy's heart may, in fact, be beer pong.

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6. Condom case

This condom carrying case will not only protect condoms from damage but also make frat boys more inclined to practice safe sex, which is a win-win situation!

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7. Frat house candle

Ahhh yes, who does not like the smell of stale beer in a dark, musty frat house basement? Frat boys can make their apartment or bedroom back home smell like their favorite place with the help of this candle.

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8. "Frat" sticker

Frat boys always need to make sure everyone around them knows just how "fratty" they are. This versatile stick can go on a laptop, car, water bottle, or practically anywhere their little hearts desire.

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9. Natty Light t-shirt 

Even I will admit that this shirt is pretty cool. The frat boy in your life will wear this shirt at every possible moment, it is just that cool!

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10. Natty light fanny pack 

This fanny pack can absolutely be rocked by any frat boy. The built-in koozie adds a nice touch.

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11. Bud Light Neon Beer Sign 

A neon beer sign will be the perfect addition to any frat boys bedroom.

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13. Frat House Dr. Sign

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14. Beer Lights 

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Big Wednesday, A Tradition You Should Probably Start If You Loved Your High School

Ah, the memories.


After three months away from home your family and friends Thanksgiving finally rolls around, and the reunions finally begin. Whether it's your freshman or senior year of college, you can't wait to get back with the people who have known you the longest.

Imagine this: It's the night before Thanksgiving, and the holiday feelings are kicking in. You dress up in your best outfit excited for whatever is in store for tonight. You and your friends gather at a house, dancing, singing, reminiscing, and drinking. Drunken tears may shed or maybe just screams of pure joy. After a few hours you call your Ubers and head downtown to a bar where you will see everyone you know from those memorable four years, an old best friend, your first kiss, seniors that you remember being so old when you were a freshman. Everyone from our high school gathers in this one bar and it is a high school reunion every year. Nothing compares, we count down the days as soon as the calendar hits November, and the feelings that this night brings are indescribable.

T'was the night before Thanksgiving, when all through the town,

Girls were getting ready with a skirt or a shirt but not a single frown.

Their Makeup was done and so was their hair,

But alcohol was the main thing handled with care

All the girls would dance and sing,

They drank and they chugged, but then ones phone began to ring,

The Uber was there. They laughed as they went,

They sung the whole way, that poor driver; his ears and their scent.

When the car stopped, out they fell,

Already talking about their late night stop at taco bell.

The line was long, but they didn't care if they'd freeze.

Fake I.D.'s in hand and praying, as saying they were 23 was a squeeze.

Familiar faces everywhere; the room was packed.

One held her friend who was most definitely blacked out.

People were talking, dancing and singing and such.

Some you'd say hi to, others not so much.

An annual reunion, where you're bound to have fun,

You laughed and smiled till the night was done.

Oh, how lucky we are to live in a town like this!

Surrounded by memories, friends and family it's truly pure bliss.

Overall, I know I live in a special town, and we carry a bond that not every place has. I look forward to the night before Thanksgiving every year. Even my mom recalls doing it at my age, and I think if she did not have to cook she would be out as well.

~Written with love and appreciation for the one and only Rockville Centre~

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