20 Things I Have Learned in my 20 Years of Existence
Start writing a post

20 Things I Have Learned in my 20 Years of Existence

As I have just turned 20, here are the life lessons that I will treasure forever, the mottos that will grow me into who I am meant to be.

20 Things I Have Learned in my 20 Years of Existence

1) Everything truly does happen for a reason

2) Do the things that scare the crap out of you--those things will make you grown more than anything else

3) Learn from pain and do not make the same mistakes

4) Family does not equal blood relationships

5) Follow your heart in regards to your passions and the rest will fall into place

6) Don't worry too much about what others think--do the things you love, stand up for them, and be proud of them

7) Vulnerability is not weak--vulnerability is strength and how you are able to really connect with those around you

8) The little, tiny moments you didn't think mattered will be the most impactful moments of your life

9) Focus on your "a-ha" moments and let that be a constant reminder of why you do what you do

10) Know when to let people go. It is okay to grow apart or to cut people off when they are not healthy for you--it does not mean you are evil or wrong

11) Be honest about your feelings--do not sugarcoat how you feel or the intsensity of a situation for you

12) Reflect on the past, but do not let it consume you--keep growing and keep trudging forward, even if it seems impossible in moments--you are stronger than you think

13) Connect to music, songs, people, places--the world-- as much as possible, and never let that connection go away because it will always be your drive

14) Don't let your career and personal aspirations cut you off from those you love--work on balancing the "glasses" of responsibility and love and connection as much as you can

15) Let music be the thing that saves you every once in a while, sit in your sadness, but then get up from it and keep moving on--this does not mean you are weak, but that you need a break. Give yourself that break.

16) People who should have been there and loved you but didn't do not define you--are are loveable and worthy of love

17) Be the actual change you want to see in the world--post unedited filter, be honest about your flaws and mental illnesses, show the world all of you and it and its inhabitants will show you all of themselves

18) Please, do not stop writing. Do not be afraid to write the stuff that scares you, write your truth whatever that is--own it and embrace it and share it. Do not let yourself ever get too down that you stop writing, it will save you in so many ways.

19) The universe has an agenda...and you need to let it be and stop messing with it. Let nature work its magic, and everything will be okay.

20) Never let the evil in the world stop you from seeing the good in people and the good that can come out of connection and community. Be that connecting piece for others to see the world not in black and white, but shades of imperfectly perfect gray.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

college students waiting in a long line in the hallway

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments