Words Of Advice On How To Succeed From Somebody Who Has Tasted Both Success And Failure
University life is no easy adjustment. Here is my honest run-down on how to make your four years of undergraduate studies an unforgettable success.
It has recently been brought to my attention over the last semester how my attitude towards school and learning has somewhat altered since returning from a year-long break from my education. I didn't realize at first, but after a long-winded, deep-rooted conversation with myself, I have learned that I have changed for the better – which has had a direct impact on my academic life here at Temple. Take this as advice from somebody that knows exactly what it is like to fail, but also someone who has learned to pick up those very pieces of failure and turn it into something worthwhile.
Embrace the imperfection
I have realized that not everything needs to be perfect. Now, I'm not talking about my actual, graded assignments (although, they're not perfect either). I used to think that my lecture notes needed to be perfectly written and color coordinated. Because of this, I would end up missing at least half of the lecture trying to make each and every word on the slide dented into my notebook.
Reality – NO ONE reads your notes except you! Coming from the biggest perfectionist you will ever meet, I am telling you that it is simply not worth having everything 'perfect' if you're missing the majority of the material. You won't be able to study from your notes, and its such a drag fishing through your professor's powerpoints during exam season.
You know you better than anyone
You understand your weird quirks better than anyone. Use that knowledge to your advantage. For me personally, I have learned that I cannot retain ANY information if I haven't washed my hair (undeniable weird quirk)… Also, ask yourself what kind of learner you are. Can you read information from a textbook and know it straight off the bat? Or are you a visual learner and retain information better when you can physically see everything in front of you?
Introducing yourself to your professor actually helps
To be perfectly honest, during my freshman year, I don't think a single professor knew who I was. I don't think they even knew I was in their class. I was non-existent and that was okay. I realize now how vital it is to your academic career for your professor to have a little insight into who you are. Go to their office hours – I guarantee that they're so lonely for that hour they are required to sit in their office and tick the box. Introduce yourself at the beginning of the semester; they will appreciate it and it will be good for you in the long run if ever you find yourself in a position where you need their help, as they will be more inclined to accommodate you.
Participation is a thing
This is rich coming from the girl that detests being wrong, however, it is imperative to make sure your voice is heard. Most of your peers do not and will not contribute, which I completely understand, but it will make you stand out from the rest and bump up your confidence without you even realizing. If you have a question, ask it! I bet ten other students in your class are thinking the exact same thing. It will also show your professor that you're concerned about your work and ultimately, their class. This is especially important if your class pertains to your major because your professors will overlap and it is imperative to make a good impression.
Invest in a calendar and use it RELIGIOUSLY
I can't breathe without my agenda. Honestly, write everything down! Even the insignificant things – if you have a jam-packed schedule, you are bound to forget. Jot it down, it literally takes two minutes and it's so rewarding to cross it off once you have completed the task.
Don't forget about YOU
While you're making plans of how to keep up with everything you've committed to, allocate time for yourself. As undeniably corny as it sounds, self-care is something that is taken too lightly in our society in my opinion. An unhappy soul will not produce a positive outcome. Your mental state is critical to your learning experience. Do whatever it is that you consider being your stress reliever. Watch Netflix, take a nap, pick up a paintbrush… Whatever gives you solace, do it!
Graduation Day, April 2018Instagram: @brittharms
