For many of us, we overlook so many red flags the other person raises for many reasons - the most common one being that no matter how many times the person crosses the lines we draw, we still believe that they will change. Sometimes, people do change, but other times, if the toxic person doesn't have an internal understanding of how their actions are affecting you or why they should change their ways, they probably aren't going to.

In other words, if you sit and try to talk to them about the things they do that make you upset or hurt you and they just casually brush it off or "don't see the big deal" about it, the odds of them actually changing their ways are slim. You start to feel like you're a record on repeat, but you're not being heard. Something that once brought you so much joy and happiness starts to turn into something exhausting, draining, and even frustrating. Sooner or later, you see the situation for what it truly is, and now it's up to you to do what's best for yourself.

Paola Torres

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